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Making the leap (thelemmy.club)
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[-] OwOarchist@pawb.social 53 points 3 months ago

Um ... what the hell point is even being made here?

In a lot of those panels, the reasons for not jumping are extremely real and valid.

"What was I waiting for?" Sufficient water in the pool, and for the crowds, crocodiles, and freak weather incidents to go away. That's what you were waiting for.

[-] makeitwonderful@lemmy.today 24 points 3 months ago

I think it's pointing out that people will ask still themselves, "What was I waiting for?" even when there were valid reasons to wait. It reminds me of internalization or self-blame.

[-] disorderly@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

I was thinking the same thing. If you view each panel as his perception of the pool rather than objective reality, then at least it has a cohesive narrative... But then the overarching message seems to become "ignore your perception and do the thing" which feels odd for a mental health community.

[-] whyNotSquirrel@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago

that he should have take the first opportunity, in the first panel?

Or to crush your competitors?

Or that you could just end it here and jump to your death?

So many good advices!

[-] sudoMakeUser@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 months ago

Yeah I'm not picking up what Mr. Snider is putting down here.

[-] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

As someone who failed mental health treatment, I interpret it as “it’s okay to hesitate if things clearly aren’t ready.” I had pressure of various sorts to “be okay,” and fix some issues, but jumping early… didn’t work at all.

[-] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 3 months ago

I don't understand the point here, most of these reasons for hesitation seem eminently practical and sane.

Is the moral "if you hesitate, you'll have to wait a long time before you get another opportunity?"

[-] bigboismith@lemmy.world 10 points 3 months ago

I see it as "don't harp on why you didn't take the plunge earlier, the previous you had their reasons"

[-] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 months ago

If that's the message, it feels poorly communicated.

[-] bigboismith@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Yeah, they probably wanted to communicate that all the hesitation was valid, but they could illustrate the last panel being naive more clearly

[-] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 months ago

I'll say he did well to wait tho 😭

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 6 points 3 months ago

Is that suicide into an icy pool?

Regardless, could it be taken as such, in a mental health community?

[-] nightmare786@leminal.space 2 points 3 months ago

night time apparently

this post was submitted on 21 Apr 2026
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