Of course you are! Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise, you still sound aspec to me!

I'm gonna go back and read the rest of that, but even without reading beyond the first line, yes, you absolutely are. 💛

E: reading the rest didn't change my mind.

Yes! I'm also an asexual lesbian. You can be whatever words describes you best. Labels are descriptive not prescriptive.

Kinda more like a Jack of clubs or something? But seriously more demi by the sounds of it.

As another commenter mentioned, demisexual sounds like it is the flavour of asexuality you experience - its still under the ace umbrella so you are absolutely a valid ace :) aside from the sleeping beauty thing, its very similar to my experience and i consider myself demi/ace

Honestly I'm a guy so my experience won't be identical but I'm very similar as far as sexual attraction goes and I consider myself ace. Another term that you may find fits you better may also be demisexual. Personally my stance is that nobody can tell you what you are. If you find either term useful to to describe yourself then that term is for you. Also remember that sometimes things change over time sometimes your identity or your understanding of it will change over time and that is fine too.

I used to identify as demisexual myself but I'm not sure if it personally fits me anymore. I think I'm really just ace but not sex repulsed. Like I don't feel like I actually feel sexual attraction but rather I just crave intimacy and sex is one way to acheive that.

One word descriptions rarely fit completely neatly. Is that (hypothetical) object over there blue? Blueish? Blue-green? Cyan? Blue gradient? Mostly blue? I say any of those are close enough depending on how precisely you want to communicate that object to people, and if they give you a hard time over it they're just being annoying.