Yes, it's entirely a position that stems from a place of entitlement

You grow up consuming media saying Just Be Yourself and that weirdo outcasts always get the girl, and when it doesn't work then there must be something profoundly wrong with You so you turn into a bitter cave troll who hates everyone and everything that reminds you of how much of a failure you are

This is the best place for incel-related content because the posters here are next level funny. When I first started reading wild incel shit, I did it on r/inceltears, but it was always such a lonely experience because the people there are extremely reddit-poisoned, just living funkopops. So i'd read something hilarious and evil that I'd want to make fun of, only to scroll down into the comments and just...cringe. They still haven't accepted that there's pretty much no helping these toxic fucks, and so their epic bantz take on an element of sanctimonious paternalism that keep them from making any really new or striking observations. Perhaps unsurprisingly, they're mostly libs.