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My sister is 23 and still dresses up and goes out knocking doors for candy... and I find it weird but I let her do her. It got me thinking, at what age do you think someone should stop Trick r Treating at? Just curious.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

when i was 13 or so i noticed the looks of the faces of the people giving out candy went from happy to annoyed. It may have also been my low effort costume but that was my last year

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

If you are an adult, and clearly an adult, then it's probably too old.

I'll still give you candy if I answer the door, but that is probably where you might creep some people out, or they give creeper vibes and don't trust answering the door.

That said, in my own experience, you are too old to trick or treat once you pass about 5'6" (~165 cm).

I remember finding out I was too old. After an event, some friends wanted to go trick or treating. I was in high school still, but just shy of 6 feet. Female friend the same age was just over 5', and another female friend that was a few years older was about 4'9".

Anyways, they trick or treated fine, and I got stares, and clearly treated differently. Clearly trick or treating is not about age, but perceived age. (and effort. If you're short and all covered up in your costume, no one will know or care... long as your voice isn't boss baby)

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

When you have a place to live and can afford a bucket of candy, I think it is an obligation to everyone who wants this tradition to continue to stay at home (yours or someone else if youre having a halloween party) and give out candy to the kids and compliment their costumes.

But other than that, nah, no age limit as long as you can still say thanks and enjoy it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

In my area, it is less age and more size. Someone that is large scares more people than a small person. I was large so stopped early, but a small woman with a mask could go quite a long time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As a timid tall person, this comment hit me in the feels. I don't like being intimidating, but there's not much I can do about it. And so many people comment about my height like it's a great thing, but sometimes I just want to be small.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

No such thing as an age limit.

It was never a "kid's only" holiday to begin with. It just became associated with that over time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In Mexico, there are two dates for "trick or treat". One is for kids (the Day of ~the Holly Innocents~ All the Saints) and the next day is for Day of the dead or Dรญa de Muertos, which is for everyone, in a clearly adult-centric celebration. The treats in the first day are candy-like, in the second day it's very-Mexican-food-like.

Ask your sister which one would she celebrate. The rightest answer is both, the right is one or the other, the wrong is none.

Also, if she's watching after some kids, that's great and deserves a treat. Ultimately, as this post and comments suggests, it all depends on the people's heart.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I would put together a costume if it meant I could go trick-or-treating and get tamales and empanadas instead of candy.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

it's funny when teenagers show up but you wouldn't want it to be exclusively teenagers.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Halloween is all but dead in my area, Seattle Washington. Only pockets of neighborhoods put up decoration. If you are able to get to my front door I don't care what you're wearing or how you got there. You get a treat. Anyone elitist with this is literally helping to kill the spirit of Halloween. The holiday hardly exists, stop trying to kill it more.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As long as your neighbors know you, any age is fine, just have fun and be happy don't worry about what other people think, just be mindful and empathetic and don't make people nervous

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Depends on the area around here 12-13 years old

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I started getting judgemental looks in my teens. That being said, I don't know how much I would care if an adult popped up on my doorstep

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

@JSens1998 What's the point of slutty Halloween costumes otherwise? They're not meant for minors.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

When your sense of entitlement outweighs your sense of wonder.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Best part about having kids is we can all dress up and go

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I want to make a house costume, so I can dress like a house, I will go to the doors, and make them knock on my little door, and I'll open it with puppets to give out candy

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

A UK sub asked this question recently. Their answer was teenagers. Apparently they are afraid of groups of teens. Therefore only primary age kids should go.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Probably once they get to college they're too old, unless they're chaperoning younger people around. New England / USA.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

previously I think I would have said about 10-12 feels like the proper cutoff, but I took my 3.5 year old out tonight, and at one house she got a king size snickers bar while the teens after us got fun size. this feels the most fair.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I haven't done it in a couple, but I used to have a "trick or treat" table and a "trick or drink" table. You got to choose one. If I was even a little sus, you were carded, that was rare, and never actually caught anyone cheating anyhow. Takes a lot of prep work though.

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