Thank you all for helping me with my new job earlier last month! (lemmygrad.ml)

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Okay, so the job is still sometimes a... real doozy. It's still a demanding retail job, which is fine, but sometimes, it seems that "something" is happening every other day. Drama, interpersonal relationship issues between my co-workers (not with me, I get along with everyone, it seems), and confusion about the task at hand have all happened at some point or another.

That said, I love my job and am transferring to a location that's much closer to me. As I may have said before, it's a church nonprofit thrift store classified as "retail." It's like Goodwill and another Catholic service I know in Florida (this one isn't Catholic, though). I also met another transfem, who seems to be transitioning or just started (relatively recently). She's high up in the business too and well-respected.

Anyway

Thank you all for cheering me up in the lead-up to my new job (which took about 8 to 10 months for me to get after much searching). I want to be an assistant manager or switch to Goodwill BUT, in the meantime, I have this job that gives me a bigger paycheck than the ones I had before, at least.

Thanks to @EmDash and @zeca@lemmy.ml

Also, thank you to @PoY and @davel.

Oh, and @Onno as well as @Maeve and @Nondiegetic.

Anyway, that seems to be everyone that encouraged me in the previous thread and gave me advice.

I'm referring to this thread, by the way:

https://lemmygrad.ml/post/9782130

Not sure what else to say; I've had this job for almost two months so far and I'm halfway through my seventh week. Any other advice is much appreciated, of course. I think my first order of business is basically to just keep saving money, but budgeting is surprisingly difficult, at least so far. I don't know what else I can do when it comes to budgeting and saving money beyond just having more in the bank every two weeks (biweekly payment through Direct Deposit).

Another thing I'm nervous about, however:

I'll have to drive myself to the location that I'm transferring to from now on. I may use Uber or Lyft sometimes, but I need to drive myself there by myself. I can't have someone take me 30 minutes in the direction of the current location I work at. Now that I'm transferring to a location that's nearer by, I will likely drive myself, but it will take 15 minutes to get there, or around that much.

The reason I'm nervous is that, even though I have my driver's license, I heard about an Autistic person from a friend of mine at work that said that one of his Autistic cousins got into a car crash (but had their driver's license) and he couldn't understand that and said that he "can't take care of himself and shouldn't."

Maybe he's not a good friend lol

The point is that it made me nervous; I've driven before. I've driven for about 30 minutes, tops.

I think since we share a car, I forego driving myself and just rely on others, but I have driven here and there.

I transfer to the new location early next week.

What do I do?

Anyway, again, thanks, everyone, this job went better than I thought it would.

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