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[–] 63 points 9 months ago (7 children)

Chinese dude does a very bad job of explaining that he's not a nazi but has a kink for nazi shit in the bedroom. Probably a sub processing various racial traumas with kink, one of those being getting dommed by nazis in the bedroom and having their race insulted. It's a humiliation and masochism kink at its core.

If they actually explained the part that was being misunderstood this whole interaction could have gone differently. The white person is not that kinky and misunderstood having never encountered any of these kinks before. Even someone with some bdsm knowledge could have worked out that it was a subdom "dominate me nazi daddy" thing.

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  • [–] 42 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    There's something about encountering an uncomfortable kink that turns everyone into an armchair psychologist.

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  • [–] 36 points 9 months ago* (2 children)

    Yeah this race stuff is absolutely not my thing but like I do get the submissive stuff so I can at least understand the core part of it. A lot of submissive trans people are into being called gender slurs and having that used against them for humiliation, that's a similar thing, they're turning their biggest weakness into kink. I can understand that the Chinese dude is just latching onto his own softest spot.

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago

    For more fun like this check out the subreddit /r/lolgrindr. Technically nsfw I would say, almost all content is text screenshots but sometimes photos are part of those conversations.

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  • [–] 58 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    I once saw a post from a gay Italian looking for "a slav to dominate", and I was too scared to ask if that was a typo.

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  • [–] 42 points 9 months ago

    liz and brace

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  • [–] 40 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (20 children)

    I'm kinda on yellow*'s side here, let him have his weird politicopsychosexual kink if it is disconnected from his real life. I would not fuck this person but just leave it at that, no need to tell him how he compares to "other Chinese people I know".

    Although I shudder to think of who will go along with this, with glee

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  • [–] 32 points 9 months ago*

    Yep honestly I think blue did something wrong by repeatedly asking someone to tell their dark kinks and then instantly judging them when they do

    Plus assuming that kinking about being dommed by someone in a nazi uniform = being ideologically nazi, especially when the person just defined said practice as "depraved and immortal," is extremely uncharitable

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  • [–] 22 points 9 months ago* (8 children)

    Which one is green?

    Edit: Do you have something like "night light" on that makes everything more redish. I tried turning mine on and it made the blue look green.


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  • [–] 22 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (5 children)

    I think it's funny that so much of BDSM often plays on reactionary thinking. Communities centered around humiliation kinks are full of talk about how betas are genetically inferior for their immutable characteristics (like having a small dick), and should therefore be subservient to their superior alphas. I think it crosses the line when you start to bring racial fetishization into it, and I don't understand how a nazi kink would work other than being into the uniforms.

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  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

    I don't know how that would work as a kink, and I don't think I want to know.

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago

    unfortunately, I checked the thread. Sounds like they just want to pretend both parties are nazis and have sex in uniform? They also agreed with another poster that men are usually into it but this woman was not.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago

    Yeah ultimately people are into what they're into

    However I think when it's something like this you have to be willing to offer a bit more than "I'm Chinese" if you want to engage with people constructively on it

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    [–] 31 points 9 months ago

    cracker

    lol

    slur

    lmao even

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  • [–] 29 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    Kinks are weird. I know a guy with a vore kink who's a die-hard vegan irl.

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    [–] 28 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    posting screenshots of your grindr, tinder, hinge, bumble, facebook dating, craigslist m4w/m4m/missed connections conversations would trigger an immediate "get this person to a two-week camp that will explain why they need to stop posting such stuff online" flag in my ideal authoritarian communist world nineteeneightyfour

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  • [–] 28 points 9 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 27 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    So uh asking for a friend but uh how do we feel about a dom outfit involving lots of leather and some USSR military iconography, and non-physical interrogation play?

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  • [–] 30 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    [A comment that has no problem with what you are concerned about, but is instead concerned about the leather, it's vegan right, and volcel-judge]


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  • [–] 21 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    More and more I’m realizing that many subs truly feel as though they deserve domination. I just like physical pain and going along with the bit. We are not the same.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    My old girlfriend scratched the hell out of my chest (not even on purpose) and I think it awakened something in me.

    And she was the sub in that relationship.

    O to be young again.

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    [–] 21 points 9 months ago

    All politics is something something

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago

    weird as hell

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (7 children)

    Everybody's accepting of kink until it's something they don't like.

    All of my kinks are morally righteous and the correct amount of deviant. My personal and experiential relationship to the kink exonerates me from endorsing what would otherwise be objectionable about it. Your kink is disgusting. There's no way you could be into it in a way that is anything but wicked; you clearly endorse what is objectionable about it.

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    I only have woke kinks while ur kinks are all reactionary and/or revisionist

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    I think he's bi or pan. He said blue is a woman, and her username is "tgirlswag".

    I don't know why anyone would have a conversation like that and then publicly post it using an account that has their face on it.

    Edit: I took another look at his profile, and he had the good sense to remove his face from it.

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago

    I'm getting a lot of questions about my "Chinese guy into Nazi kink" t-shirt that are answered by the shirt.

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  • [+] 13 points 9 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)
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    [–] 11 points 9 months ago

    case of "Why did this person post themselves acting like this?"

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