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[–] 40 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (20 children)

I'm kinda on yellow*'s side here, let him have his weird politicopsychosexual kink if it is disconnected from his real life. I would not fuck this person but just leave it at that, no need to tell him how he compares to "other Chinese people I know".

Although I shudder to think of who will go along with this, with glee

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  • [–] 32 points 9 months ago*

    Yep honestly I think blue did something wrong by repeatedly asking someone to tell their dark kinks and then instantly judging them when they do

    Plus assuming that kinking about being dommed by someone in a nazi uniform = being ideologically nazi, especially when the person just defined said practice as "depraved and immortal," is extremely uncharitable

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  • [–] 22 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (5 children)

    I think it's funny that so much of BDSM often plays on reactionary thinking. Communities centered around humiliation kinks are full of talk about how betas are genetically inferior for their immutable characteristics (like having a small dick), and should therefore be subservient to their superior alphas. I think it crosses the line when you start to bring racial fetishization into it, and I don't understand how a nazi kink would work other than being into the uniforms.

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  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

    I don't know how that would work as a kink, and I don't think I want to know.

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago

    unfortunately, I checked the thread. Sounds like they just want to pretend both parties are nazis and have sex in uniform? They also agreed with another poster that men are usually into it but this woman was not.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago

    Yeah, people just use "don't kinkshame" as a thought-terminating axiom, but I think someone fetishizing behaving in a racist manner might need help. I can't really say anything about someone who wants to be treated in a racist manner except that it might be good to find other things because it's better to not have people playing the other role there . . .

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  • [–] 22 points 9 months ago* (8 children)

    Which one is green?

    Edit: Do you have something like "night light" on that makes everything more redish. I tried turning mine on and it made the blue look green.


    This user is suspected of being a cat. Please report any suspicious behavior.

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I tried maxing mine and it just looked a little bit more piss-dunked

    I choose instead to believe green is a fusion of the two grindrers

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    I believe that grindrers are a spectrum, not a binary. Everything from the closeted university students looking to make a real and lasting monogamous romantic connection now that they're living on their own, to the "partiers" ranting about everything, to the DL cheaters looking to get some action while their wives are out of town, to the OF bottom himbos looking for ten inches and a physique like a Greek god, to the kinkster crowd looking to jump into someone else's ropes before even knowing the rigger's name, to the unhinged maniacs who have even managed to get themselves banned from the absolute dive that is Club Hamilton in Hamilton Ontario, to the posters and lurkers of /r/gaymentoronto bemoaning the lack of real social connections even as they ask if anyone else will be at Spa Excess on Friday.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago

    Yeah ultimately people are into what they're into

    However I think when it's something like this you have to be willing to offer a bit more than "I'm Chinese" if you want to engage with people constructively on it

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