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Oh boy 8:05am, time to go tell a guy on grinder I'm a Chinese guy into Nazi race play. Maybe the gay community needs to be a little less opening. (hexbear.net)
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[–] 21 points 9 months ago (6 children)

More and more I’m realizing that many subs truly feel as though they deserve domination. I just like physical pain and going along with the bit. We are not the same.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    My old girlfriend scratched the hell out of my chest (not even on purpose) and I think it awakened something in me.

    And she was the sub in that relationship.

    O to be young again.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Haha I’m more of a blunt trauma kinda person. I dated a girl that loved to dig her nails into my back. Was not a fan of he sensation but seeing the damage afterword was pretty cool.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago

    I cherished those little scars for a while ngl. Too bad I blew that relationship. Kinda swore off the whole idea of being with someone afterward out of guilt. Tried dating apps a couple times afterward but that shit sucks.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I'd say to some degree this is something of the distinction between someone who is primarily a masochist and someone who is primarily a submissive.

    Speaking from personal experience (me), having a strong fetishized draw to the actual act of submission and not having a masochistic bone in my body, it really is a very different thing, yea, and often does connect to non-sexual personality traits and values and such.

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