I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[–] 137 points 9 months ago (15 children)

One thing to note is more often people here reply with genuine comments and in good faith. There is also a lack of clever snarky comments and baiting due to the lack of karma system.

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  • [–] 43 points 9 months ago

    And the lack of karma also leads to more comments, as well. I liken lemmy to what the internet used to be like, where conversations among strangers happened regularly. It's very rewarding and wholesome. Definitely not the "antisocial media" that reddit prides itself on.

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  • [–] 20 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Isn't the up / downvote just like karma?

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  • [–] 74 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    Karma on reddit tracks the accumulated likes and dislikes a user has gotten on all of their posts. Lemmy does not have a number like that.

    Edit: What this means in practice is that on Reddit there are some users who make a lot of low-effort posts to get that karma number to go up and get a sense of accomplishment from that (even when they get a negative reputation among the other users), whereas on Lemmy that's not really a thing. Lemmy has power-users that become well-known, but they're more well-liked because they aim to gain actual reputation instead of just farming a karma number.

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    [–] 131 points 9 months ago (26 children)

    If you haven't already then you need to switch to Linux

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    [–] 103 points 9 months ago (8 children)

    Take advice from Detective Frank Drebin

    "Like a blindman at an orgy, I was going to have to feel my way through"

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    [–] 83 points 9 months ago (8 children)

    Please do not drag the same tired jokes over from reddit (e.g. broken arms). Stick around long enough to learn Lemmy's tired jokes.

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    [–] 82 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    It’s smaller, but more personable. It’s full of neurodivergent, queer, and tech oriented people. It has its own inside jokes—you will want to read up on beans.

    Overall, I have enjoyed the experience. Sometimes, I have been surprised when people can’t detect obvious jokes or sarcasm, but then I remember how many people here are neurodivergent and try to reply with something kind and straightforward so we’re on the same page.

    People tend to be very leftist compared to the rest of the internet, so it’s good to remember that the opinions here are not always representative of the world at large.

    A huge chunk of Lemmy is German, and that part of the community remains a total mystery to me because I don’t speak German. They seem cool from afar.

    Which communities you are able to see depends pretty heavily on which instance is your home base—I’m with DB0, and we federate with pretty much everyone who isn’t doing something detestably illegal, but LemmyWorld is much more exclusive with who they federate with, so their users don’t see the same instances that I do. Pick a home instance that fits you best because it will matter a lot as you find communities.

    You will see interactions between communists and anarchists. Try to remember that you don’t have to comment on everything you might disagree with.

    Welcome to the Fediverse—we’re happy to have you.

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    [–] 56 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Each Lemmy instance has its own rules, and each community as well. Please read them before posting, because rule #3 for this community is:

    1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
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    [–] 45 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Don't be a jerk and you will be fine.

    We are all mostly human here. Just remember that. Hope you have a great time on the fediverse!

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    [–] 44 points 9 months ago* (21 children)

    Don't do shit like "lemmy etiquette". Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

    Also stop worrying so much about "doing anything bad". Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it's no big deal. You're good.

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    [–] 35 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Just know that Hexbear has the best users and anyone who says otherwise is not to be trusted.

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    [–] 33 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    It's acceptable and encouraged to say, "death to all healthcare insurance CEO's" here

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    [–] 30 points 9 months ago (14 children)

    Because lemmy is much smaller, you tend to rub into the same users more often. So if someone comes off as abrasive, blocking them can have a notable impact on your experience.

    Dogpiling is worse, and it can pay to know what instance the community you're posting in is, as the games community on hexbear is going to be different than on world.

    It's much more "left" than reddit. Notably, while this instance, lemmy.ml, is the flagship instance run by the lead dev, the "ml" stands for marxist-leninist.

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    [–] 29 points 9 months ago (16 children)

    Each instance has its own vibe. You joined .ml, just a fair warning that a few instances and a chunk of Lemmy users have defederated/blocked it, so you may miss out on some content. Otherwise, pretty chill for the most part.

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (35 children)

    I'm like OP from a few months ago. I joined ML because it was easy and sorta anonymous. What's the story on ML? Who defederated? What am I missing?

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  • [–] 28 points 9 months ago*

    It's the devs' test instance.

    The devs are Marxist-Leninists. They're the admins of the instance. Therefore the instance has nuanced-to-positive views on Actually Existing Socialist (AES) states, and allows for criticism of Democrats from the left.

    It's been defederated by instances whose admins aren't wiling to critically examine their lifetime of capitalist programming and are accustomed to Reddit's universal condemnation of AES states.

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    [–] 27 points 9 months ago (12 children)

    By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

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    [–] 25 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    Me too! I have been browsing for a month or two and Reddit finally had enough of my “violent rhetoric”. This is like my second post.

    So what I am gathering is that here I CAN say that I believe that the only solution to capitalism is a revolution so violent and thorough that Mao would be uncomfortable?

    Or nah?

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    [–] 24 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

    Don't be a jerk and you'll be fine. :)

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    [–] 21 points 9 months ago

    Niche communities are small/sparse, so commenting and posting there will be especially appreciated.

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    [–] 19 points 9 months ago*

    Do NOT mention Nicole.

    Wait, shi-

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (17 children)

    Well here if you disagree with someone do not engage just insult their beliefs and type ‘tankie’…wait you’re on .world right?

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    [–] 17 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    If you use any Microsoft product, keep that to yourself...

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    [–] 17 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    It's fairly strafight forward, i just try and follow these two rules.

    1. Don't be a cunt
    2. If in doubt, refer to Rule 1.
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    [–] 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (42 children)

    If you follow these, you'll be fine:

    Don't hate on minorities
    Don't post AI content outside of communities made for it
    Don't insert yourself into communities where you don't belong, eg:

    • Don't comment "As a man, ..." in WomensStuff
    • Don't debate the validity of trans folks on Blahaj
    • Don't criticize China in any way on lemmy.ml

    DO NOT post anything negative about Linux (unless you're comparing it to BSD, of course)

    Sometimes it's a bit harder not to offend than on reddit, because posts may hit your front page from an instance that was created as a safe space for a group you're not part of, and they may react harshly to you budding in.

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