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submitted 2 months ago by Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[-] lemmyout@lemmy.zip 137 points 2 months ago

One thing to note is more often people here reply with genuine comments and in good faith. There is also a lack of clever snarky comments and baiting due to the lack of karma system.

[-] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 43 points 2 months ago

And the lack of karma also leads to more comments, as well. I liken lemmy to what the internet used to be like, where conversations among strangers happened regularly. It's very rewarding and wholesome. Definitely not the "antisocial media" that reddit prides itself on.

[-] hogmomma@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago

Isn't the up / downvote just like karma?

[-] Mk23simp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 74 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Karma on reddit tracks the accumulated likes and dislikes a user has gotten on all of their posts. Lemmy does not have a number like that.

Edit: What this means in practice is that on Reddit there are some users who make a lot of low-effort posts to get that karma number to go up and get a sense of accomplishment from that (even when they get a negative reputation among the other users), whereas on Lemmy that's not really a thing. Lemmy has power-users that become well-known, but they're more well-liked because they aim to gain actual reputation instead of just farming a karma number.

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[-] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 18 points 2 months ago

I do snark for the art, and will live and die by it.

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[-] Infernal_pizza@lemmy.dbzer0.com 131 points 2 months ago

If you haven't already then you need to switch to Linux

[-] RaoulDuke85@piefed.social 38 points 2 months ago

Then keep reminding everyone you use Arch.

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[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 103 points 2 months ago

Take advice from Detective Frank Drebin

"Like a blindman at an orgy, I was going to have to feel my way through"

[-] onTerryO@lemmy.ca 47 points 2 months ago

"Like a midget at a urinal, I was going to have to keep on my toes"

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 months ago

"I'm sure we can handle this situation maturely, just like the responsible adults that we are. Isn't that right, Mr. Poopy Pants?"

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[-] Okokimup@lemmy.world 83 points 2 months ago

Please do not drag the same tired jokes over from reddit (e.g. broken arms). Stick around long enough to learn Lemmy's tired jokes.

[-] Broadfern@lemmy.world 35 points 2 months ago

Beans, how not to poop for 5 days, ed Sheeran, and I use arch btw? I’m sure I missed a bunch, too.

[-] 4am@lemmy.zip 25 points 2 months ago

How not to poop for 5 days was the first fediverse legend I got to personally witness, good times

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[-] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 81 points 2 months ago

It’s smaller, but more personable. It’s full of neurodivergent, queer, and tech oriented people. It has its own inside jokes—you will want to read up on beans.

Overall, I have enjoyed the experience. Sometimes, I have been surprised when people can’t detect obvious jokes or sarcasm, but then I remember how many people here are neurodivergent and try to reply with something kind and straightforward so we’re on the same page.

People tend to be very leftist compared to the rest of the internet, so it’s good to remember that the opinions here are not always representative of the world at large.

A huge chunk of Lemmy is German, and that part of the community remains a total mystery to me because I don’t speak German. They seem cool from afar.

Which communities you are able to see depends pretty heavily on which instance is your home base—I’m with DB0, and we federate with pretty much everyone who isn’t doing something detestably illegal, but LemmyWorld is much more exclusive with who they federate with, so their users don’t see the same instances that I do. Pick a home instance that fits you best because it will matter a lot as you find communities.

You will see interactions between communists and anarchists. Try to remember that you don’t have to comment on everything you might disagree with.

Welcome to the Fediverse—we’re happy to have you.

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[-] davel@lemmy.ml 56 points 2 months ago

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  1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 months ago

I switched from reddit awhile back. It is similar, but so far have seen a lot less hostility than reddit. I don't have time for those types , so if they turn to insults rather than proper dialog I just block them, even if they weren't talking to me directly. It makes it a much more pleasant experience

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[-] mesamunefire@piefed.social 45 points 2 months ago

Don't be a jerk and you will be fine.

We are all mostly human here. Just remember that. Hope you have a great time on the fediverse!

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[-] Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Don't do shit like "lemmy etiquette". Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

Also stop worrying so much about "doing anything bad". Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it's no big deal. You're good.

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[-] sexywheat@hexbear.net 35 points 2 months ago

Just know that Hexbear has the best users and anyone who says otherwise is not to be trusted.

[-] 4am@lemmy.zip 23 points 2 months ago

I actually like the hexbears for the most part

It’s the snowflake libertarians who get all bent out of shape when they get called out by a plurality of leftists after chirping about their supposed freedom and they start crying on the timeline about how illegal that should be that gets me

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[-] TheBroodian@hexbear.net 33 points 2 months ago

It's acceptable and encouraged to say, "death to all healthcare insurance CEO's" here

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[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 2 months ago

Because lemmy is much smaller, you tend to rub into the same users more often. So if someone comes off as abrasive, blocking them can have a notable impact on your experience.

Dogpiling is worse, and it can pay to know what instance the community you're posting in is, as the games community on hexbear is going to be different than on world.

It's much more "left" than reddit. Notably, while this instance, lemmy.ml, is the flagship instance run by the lead dev, the "ml" stands for marxist-leninist.

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[-] Gerudo@lemmy.zip 29 points 2 months ago

Each instance has its own vibe. You joined .ml, just a fair warning that a few instances and a chunk of Lemmy users have defederated/blocked it, so you may miss out on some content. Otherwise, pretty chill for the most part.

[-] brain_in_a_box@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago

Which major instances defed .ml?

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[-] chillpanzee@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 months ago

I'm like OP from a few months ago. I joined ML because it was easy and sorta anonymous. What's the story on ML? Who defederated? What am I missing?

[-] TankieTanuki@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's the devs' test instance.

The devs are Marxist-Leninists. They're the admins of the instance. Therefore the instance has nuanced-to-positive views on Actually Existing Socialist (AES) states, and allows for criticism of Democrats from the left.

It's been defederated by instances whose admins aren't wiling to critically examine their lifetime of capitalist programming and are accustomed to Reddit's universal condemnation of AES states.

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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 months ago

By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

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[-] xxam925@lemmy.zip 25 points 2 months ago

Me too! I have been browsing for a month or two and Reddit finally had enough of my “violent rhetoric”. This is like my second post.

So what I am gathering is that here I CAN say that I believe that the only solution to capitalism is a revolution so violent and thorough that Mao would be uncomfortable?

Or nah?

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[-] indomara@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago

Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

Don't be a jerk and you'll be fine. :)

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[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

Niche communities are small/sparse, so commenting and posting there will be especially appreciated.

[-] RagnarokOnline@programming.dev 20 points 2 months ago
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[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Do NOT mention Nicole.

Wait, shi-

[-] chemicalprophet@slrpnk.net 18 points 2 months ago

Well here if you disagree with someone do not engage just insult their beliefs and type ‘tankie’…wait you’re on .world right?

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