Na I get what you mean. The novelty of the internet is pretty warn thin at this point. Used to be things to tinker with, but APIs worth their time are dried up because of AI. That Web2 promise of open data to build cool things with is gone.
Small projects get quickly overrun with attention that it can cripple them or they instantly become shit with ads and paywalls.
You're not hanging out in WoW barons chat anymore because that game has jumped 100 sharks at this point. You used to get into a Wailing Caverns run for 4 hours with 5 people and end up a member of a guild with a Mumble server that you could join at any hour of the day and find someone online.
Web comics and sites would have attached PHPBB forms with their own communities. The authors are in there sometimes and its cozy and fun. But those people host gaming conventions for multi billion dollar mega corporations now and you can't afford or don't have the time to go to anymore. Any site opening now already has a subreddit likely run by "fans" and its a little nightmare place that gets either to little traction or the site its about doesn't even know it exists.
You'd join an art site to post silly drawings on and consume others drawings. Get in a little drama with some furry who was just trying to be themselves online because at home they can't. Now that furry is a highly paid independent tech contractor with a $30,000 fur suit and you both would probably vibe now, but the art site is basically dead and over run with AI nonsense.
No one is hanging out and doing weird shit on second life any more. The meta verse killed any remaining interest in virtual escapism and you realize now second life was just rife with capitalist demands and property ownership, and didn't dare to imagen a world any differently then our own. Sure people made cool stuff but the best stuff was owned by someone else and they commissioned it from a designer, and it was all off limits to you because of private property existing in our little VR game.
You don't put something online anymore you open a small business and run small business ads and hope your little site gets bought out so you can build a little bigger site and move up to being a medium business doing medium business ads.
Everyone has a podcast but half of them are dead feeds that haven't been updated in over a year. If you download an episode it'll bake in current targeted ads.
You used to check dozens of sites every day, now you close your tabs from the one website you visit regularly and instinctually open a new tab to the same site only to realize nothing has changed because its only been 5 minutes since you ran the feed dry.
You and your extended family would share photos with each other and catch up on each others lives through innocuous social feed, but those feeds cooked their brains and you don't use those sites anymore and haven't really talked to your extended family in a while as a result.
Everything is just incredibly siloed now, the basic niche existence was destroyed by the gigantic generalization and consolidation of those niches. Everything has a subreddit for better or for worse. Half of them are dead. Search is a wasteland of sponsored links. Discovery means less traction on the core services. Dead internet theory is at it's highest stage yet. Nothing is new or novel. Every service is trying to be a one stop platform. All the platforms are becoming homogeneous. Its monopoly capitalism at it's finest.
At least we have Hexbear.