No, all mamalls are lactaic tolerant as babies.
We become lactaic intolerant so weaning wasn't a choice, it was something that needed to happen.
The people who started drinking animal milk as adults didn't immediately shit themselves, they were people whose evolved method for weaning was already "broken" allowing them to tolerate lactaic acid as an adult.
In places animal milk became an important food source (protein in the winter) having the "broken" genes was beneficial and it spread among the population until it became the norm.
The people who couldn't handle it, either died out or mated with people who could.
The first step was probably toddlers who kept being able to drink milk over long winters were more likely to live. Become lactaic I tolerant before a long winter... You probably wouldn't see spring.