I think I have two general responses.
I think you're right in that photography and the style of photographs has evolved with technology. Each of those technological steps has been partially shaped by art (what makes it to market) and taste (what succeeds in the market). Additionally, darkrooms gave a lot of leeway for the look of the final image. This also ties into what makes for a compelling image - you're often looking for a dramatic scene, a subject that's a bit out of the norm, and/or unique lighting. Yeah, there are street photographs of everyday people doing everyday things in normal lighting, but they often aren't that compelling.
In other words, photography is often stylized. I personally think that's OK, especially when you consider how flat lightly processed photos are.
The good news in today's world: if you shoot digital you can shoot raw + jpeg and change the look of the image pretty drastically with non-destructive edits. I've re-edited photos I've taken over a decade ago and changed their look significantly. I can do the same again in another 10 years if it strikes my fancy.