AITA for saying someone who triggered my PTSD was not attractive? (self.aitah)

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I’m sorry, I know this title seems like bait.

I (18F) was harassed sexually(?), verbally, and bullied by a woman (19F). My younger sister finds her gorgeous and got mad at me for saying she was average and not that attractive. She also told me “I was just saying that because she was horrible to me.”

That is true, but she genuinely isn’t attractive to me. My friend and boyfriend find her ugly (specifically on the inside).

I don’t think she’s ugly, but I don’t find her pretty either. Ugly on the inside, average appearance-wise, but wears nice clothes and likes cute things.

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

No, attraction is a personal thing. Much like taste. Just because you like like coffee and I find it tastes like dirt doest make either of us bad.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Nope some of the most physically attractive women I ever saw were so ugly to me that I didn't even like to be in the same room with them. Human beauty is way more than the physical. When you know how ugly they are on the inside the wrapper just looks sad.

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