option to group communities into one feed?
Multicommunities have been implemented at the platform level, and will be incorporated into a future Lemmy release: https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/issues/818
I assume app developers will follow suit.
there are 3 separate communities on different servers about the same or very similar topics
Multicommunities are useful, but they don't entirely solve the problem of userbase fragmentation from separate communities on similar or identical topics.
Further discussion of this problem and potential solutions here: Lemmy Needs to Fix Its Community Separation Problem