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Location: CA, USA

I have some neighbors who regularly have a huge bash lasting all night long - it's happened every Cinco de Mayo for nearly a decade.

This year - nothing.

The whole town is quiet. This used to be one of the noisiest days of the year. Is anyone else noticing this in their community?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 minutes ago

Location: MI, USA. My city is insanely white. The second highest demographic being Black, at around 4%. I have never seen or heard any celebrating around here. But you can expect a 2hr wait at any Mexican restaurant.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 hours ago

They're afraid of attracting ICE raids

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

It's a Monday

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 hours ago

Probably ICE and bad economy

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I expect Chinese New Year celebrations to go down too once they start ramping up the "CCP Spy" Sinophobic rhetoric.

It'd be like the red scare all over again, except this time the Russians already won, and is now... in a proxy war with China via the US?

So now:
Russian agent in the white house = good?
But every Chinese American is now a spy, even with zero proof whatsoever?

What the fuck is going on lol? This Simulation is broken

[–] [email protected] 66 points 6 hours ago

Yeah. Because the usa is now ran by goddamn fucking Nazis

[–] [email protected] 143 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

They probably also went easy on the Yom Kippur celebrations in 1933 Germany

[–] [email protected] 64 points 9 hours ago

This was hilarious for a second then fucking terrifying.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I'm in California too. Every year I forget it's Cinco and think "Damn, Mexicans are feeling super patriotic! There's two meter Mexican flags attached to half the vehicles on the road today! Oh....... it is the 5th of May isn't it..." Not one this year.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I was in Mexico for Cinco last year and they didn't seem to give a shit. I asked if anything special was going on and they just laughed and said no.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 55 minutes ago

Yeah it seems to be more of a Mexican-American thing. Also it has become sort of a Hallmark Holiday in the US, meaning the significance is amplified by marketing.

I mean the weather is usually beautiful on May 5, so any excuse to have a party.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 hours ago

My Mexican neighbor was just sitting on the steps looking depressed as fuck earlier. :(

[–] [email protected] 159 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (3 children)

With ICE being given carte blanche to do whatever they want with no oversight; would you be having a gathering? Even if you were 110% legal, would you risk getting someone who isn't snatched up?

I tried to be festive and have been blasting Mexican music for the neighborhood; but it's like 10pm and I'm old, gotta shut it down.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 7 hours ago

Even if you were 110% legal, would you risk getting ~~someone who isn't~~ snatched up?

It clearly doesn’t matter to ICE or the regime generally if a person is a citizen

[–] [email protected] 38 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

The why (ICE) is pretty clear. I was really more interested in where - how widespread is this?

Because honestly, the silence is chilling. It feels like the day is being smothered in this blanket of lukewarm fear.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly all the holidays were a bit muted for 45 so it makes sense they're even quieter for 47. There's even more fear, anxiety, anger, etc. Not the things that really drive a party atmosphere.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Trump as 45th and 47th president

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

I understood what you meant.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I see, that's probably something only Americans would generally understand :D

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Ahh yeah I probably getting deported. I wasn’t suppose to tell a non American 😁

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 hours ago

That's the last civics lesson you'll be teaching around here, pal.

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Right. ICE is a bunch of thugs who would love to round up brown people celebrating Cinco de Mayo.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Yeah, they are.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

There was a time when that would have been recognized as sarcasm.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

I actually don't think I agree. ICE has been increasingly militarized and distilled into a posse of yes-men thugs for a while. They finally got a leader that let's them act like the SS.

It was never a joke, and people now realize that.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 11 hours ago

Yeah, same. Previous years it was cars driving around with flags, posters for events, etc. This year I saw absolutely nothing. Feels a bit glum tbh.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 11 hours ago

El Salvador

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Yep, people usually go pretty hard in Redwood City but not this year. It is Monday but even for a Monday it's quiet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Hey, I know this wasn't the point of your comment, but I grew up in Redwood City! Nice to see it mentioned. That was a wonderful place to spend the 90s as a kid.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

Nah, the Mexican Catholic Church up the road from me threw another huge party today, and I'm in one of the shit hole southern states.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

If the cause for muted celebration persists, for next year I'd suggest reviving International Workers' Day and/or Beltane, possibly with Cinco de Mayo influences. Nothing like solidarity marches, or bonfires, pagan magic and feasting.

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