Considerations for pursuing long-term relationships with guys? (programming.dev)

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At 31, I have had 6-10 sexual partners (depending on what counts), half guys, half girls. My female partners (including one transfem) were mostly interested in long-term relationships, as am I. My male partners were all hookups with no follow-up, much to my disappointment. As I am now actively looking for a boyfriend, are there any special considerations when courting men, as opposed to women, for this purpose?

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Never done anything with women ever, but be upfront about what your goals are. "The medium is the message" also kinda applies. If you met using an app or the bar, it's assumed it's a hook-up.

When I stated seeing my husband over a decade ago, I was upfront that I was looking for long term.
When I just wanted to enjoy someone's company for an evening, I was also upfront about that too.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

Straight here from /all. If you have a wide dating pool already, out of curiosity why are you seeking a male partner specifically this time? Just trying something new?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I prefer men. I enjoy uninhibited male sexuality, especially since I'm a bottom. It's not that I dislike women, but my sexuality has never been a good match for women outside of BDSM. I do not like vaginal sex and I do not understand all the cultural bullshit of gender roles which obviously don't apply to queer relationships.

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