Am I The Asshole?

Ever walk away from a conversation with your tail low, wondering if you were the problem? This is a space to share those moments — real-life conflicts where you're genuinely unsure if you acted fairly or crossed a line.

Whether it's pack drama, con tension, or just a messy roommate moment, this den is open to all species and stripes. Share your story, anonymized and in good faith, and let the community help you reflect — not roast.

Rules

• Pawb.Social Instance Rules Apply
• Be Civil
  • Avoid ad hominem attacks – We're here to help people reflect on what happened from an outside perspective, not harass or dunk on them.
• Accept Outside Perspectives
  • While you may not agree with a perspective, it's not up for debate if you dislike what you hear; Accept it, and move on.
  • If you think a commenter misunderstood or missed context, bring it up cordially.
• What Happens in c/AITA, Stays in c/AITA
  • To avoid brigading and harassment, please do not cross-post c/AITA posts to other communities (other than another AITA or similar community) or reference posts directly.
  • We want to maintain a positive and reflective community, not a harassment front.

Voting Guide / Terminology

• 🟢 NTA – Not The Asshole
• 🟡 ESH – Everyone Sucks Here
• 🔴 YTA – You’re The Asshole
• 🔵 NAH – No Assholes Here
• 🟣 NMI - Need More Information