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[–] 121 points 1 year ago (4 children)

The ADHD cope to research a thing for tens of hours across weeks or even months, agonizing over the purchase of the thing (especially if multiple options are available) before ultimately deciding that it isn't worth the relatively minuscule cost.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 year ago

    I’m so glad I’m not the only one. The stereotype of impulse buying is overshadowed by the compulsive need to absolutely make sure the dopamine high off the product is worth the money spent.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I have a problem where everything that I want to buy has been discontinued years ago, so my days of research end up being all for naught by the time I'm ready to pull the trigger. I really need to start reading the publish dates on web pages...

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  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago

    He missed a step before and some after:

    Do everything humanly possible with the thing, learn exactly how it works, become subject matter expert, then put it somewhere.

    Have someone randomly ask about the thing, knowledge dump, excited to show the person the thing, forget where you put it.

    Be at home a few weeks later, find the thing, be sad you couldn't find it earlier, put it in a new pile, for sure you'll remember where it is this time!

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    [–] 29 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    I see this guy also bought a Flipper Zero

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I used mine to get into my office building until someone got suspicious.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    My rowing machine

    In its box

    In the basement

    For the last year and a half

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    If you are not physically active in other ways I encourage you to fetch it from the basement and set it up this weekend

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Thank you. My partner and myself have not at all been active for a while due to medical issues. There is no raisin we couldn’t use a rowing machine now, though. We need to.. be people.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago*

    Easier said than done, and I'm in the process of doing it right now as well, but you gotta get used to breaking the constant cycle of "I gotta do it" and replace it with "I will do it now".

    Doesn't work every time, doesn't work every day, but every time is a large success that makes my day better and my head a nicer place.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My entire foray into home automation.

    There's a box full of AliExpress zigbee sensors of all sorts in my office.

    Someday...

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    I mean, you can take it out of the shipping box but it stacks pretty good with the others if you don't.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    The ceiling fans in my garage call to me on occasion. Usually that occasion is "sitting in a warm room with no air flow."

    It's been about 6 years now.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Oh man, this one is a direct hit.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I have two raspberry pi’s just sitting in their boxes. It’s been two years 🤦‍♂️

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I feel ya. Two still in their boxes JetKVMs and a new Pi 500 is just the start for me. Soooo much stuff, so much money, and hundreds of hours of research into all of them.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    At some point I had three, and thought of buying newer more powerful models or the small versions for tinker projects I will never do.

    Eventually sold and gave away the unused ones, the only one I have ever actively used is effectively just my music system (hard drive with music collection and my Hifi speakers attached via HifiBerry DAC).

    What's worse, in the last 2 years I bought 3 hardware synthesizers and learned a shitton about sound design. Still haven't created a single track or interesting patch with any of them.

    Right now I am writing a short story, because I had a cool concept idea. Maybe I will complete at least one hobby thing for once? Oh my dear ADHD brain, you do really have a will and life of your own.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    Fuck.

    Ouch, man. Why you gotta attack me like that?

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Currently going through this watching videos of Walstad method aquariums lol

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I have no idea how I got past this phase in my ADHD. I think at some point my brain went “okay only buy thing you’re going to use like every day”

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    [–] 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    If that’s ADHD, then capitalism is ADHD for the masses

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Capitalism does prioritize engagement and spending by exploiting short-term dopamine rushes, so in a way kinda-sorta yes?

    ADHD as a clinical diagnosis though is the chronic inability for the brain to absorb/retain dopamine; a neurological or chemical issue that isn’t “caused” by behavior. Severe enough and you get to the point where you desperately want to play a video game or watch a show but can’t even press the start button 🥲

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    On the one hand, capitalism loves us (or our money) and wants to make everyone else behave like they have ADHD too. On the other hand it hates us and treats us like pieces of shit, even more than the general population.

    Let's take revenge and try to have a good life without being shamed for 'slacking'. Living well is the best revenge!

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    Honestly I really enjoy doing this. Have done it constantly for decades hah.

    You end up having a graveyard of fascinating things that you can rediscover, and repeat the same cycle on. My small dwelling is full of surprises and discovery. Same shit I have been staring at for years. It's great.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Thank you for the reminder. Pretty sure I have two random gadgets sitting around on month 3 or 4 somewhere, so now I have a great activity for the weekend, or not, we will see.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I am pretty sure this is anyone, not really ADHD specific. More like a "makes me feel good to buy something" specific. Which is many many people.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Urge or compulsion?

    Bcs the process is a drag, takes hours & a bunch of irrelevant decisions.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Hey, I'm in this picture!

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  • [+] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 2 months ago)
    [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Oh, is that what I have..

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Sometimes I’m frightened to think about using something.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    My Japanese saw and shinto rasp just sighed in annoyance.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Ah. Not just me then. Good to know.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    My Retroid Pocket Flip 2 arrives on Monday. Soon I'll have more consoles than ever before I can emulate but probably won't.

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