Selfhosted

I ended up using rsync to do my backups. I have a laptop, an Android phone with Termux, a HomeAssistant docker image on a Raspberry Pi 4 and a home PieFed instance on a Raspberry Pi 5.

Each RPi board will create a complete backup on it's on storage. I'll then make a copy of each backup to my laptop. And finally another copy from my laptop to an external usb storage device. I also made a specific folder on my Android phone for the purpose of syncing with my laptop.

What I like about rsync is that it can be made to only transfer any changed files and not everything each time.

Since I use docker images on both my RPi boards, I made a script that shuts down all the containers before make a backup copy and finally starting the containers again. I even made a script to do something similar to restore from the saved backup.

Took a lot of trail and error to get them working but I am pretty happy with it. I have the scripts here if anyone is interested. I labelled what I did but didn't really leave comments explaining things. They are pretty simple anyways.

I could have used rsnapshot but learning how to use rsync has been interesting enough to me.

I went a little crazy and setup my own wireguard VPN network, all the remote hosts connect to the VPN and the primary server connects to each of them and pushes backups. Because I use btrfs and lots of snapshots I use btrbk, annoying to setup but now my hourly snapshots get pushed everywhere, minimal bandwidth and it flawlessly has worked for years.

I like borg with rsync.

Configure and Pre backup the drives before bringing them to family members to save yourself some bandwidth

I have an offsite NAS where I run the Restic REST server as a docker container. I connect to it over Nebula but you could also use a traditional VPN, Tailscale, Headscale, Pangolin or whatever.

Works like a charm.

Tailscale+Headscale or Zerotier, use whatever backup software you want for the local backups. Simple script to rsync backups to other sites and remove copies past a certain age.

Pretty simple, and no need to expose machines in any less than safe ways.

I use sync thing with untrusted keys. That way the data ends up in multiple locations but it's not accessible remotely. If you don't care about the data and the locations you don't have to do that but it's a nice feature.

I'd do it like this:

• borg backup

• (optional) borgmatic for easier use, but a diy shell script might suffice

• (optional) https://github.com/Ravinou/borgwarehouse for easier gui based "serverside" setup on each location

• (if you have no way to reach the servers from the internet yet) set up dyndns for each location so you can reach them by domain

• might need to setup portforwarding rules in the router of each location

You don't want to send as that's means that an adversary can delete the backups.

Make each one do a pull instead.

I use rsync for a similar system. One of the nice things is that you can set a bandwidth limit so that it doesn't saturate your family's internet connections.