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I'm leaving my PhD.

Made the decision a couple of days ago, I think, but I only made it true today. I really hated this... My mom wasn't even surprised, though apparently my grandma and my brother were both shocked. My supervisor is pissed, also because, admittedly, I really didn't give him any warning I was feeling this way. But, I mean, what was I supposed to do?

I think this was a mistake. I hate research.

OK.

Then?! I mean, it's not that the issue is the projects or him or the university. The problem is, undeniably, ME! I don't want to be there. I got myself in too deep, I don't want to be in this world, so I decided to leave. I could've left sooner, sure, I couldn't left later... I could've left at a more convenient time for my supervisor, but I'm really not in the mood to torture myself any longer. I reached my breaking point, so I broke. It took time to reach this conclusion, it couldn't be helped.

Now, I hope I don't have to give the grant money back or pay the tuition... It's not particularly likely that I'll have to pay buy the grant money, but I might have to pay back the tuition, since the grant provider might not have payed it yet and may refuse to do so. It's fine, I can afford it, I think... But still. If I have to give everything back I'll be financially set back quite significantly, but that's life, I guess.

Good luck to me!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

You wouldn't be the first and definitely won't be the last to quit PhD. Academia is far more toxic than any industry I've worked in. It gets much better in the real world though. You'll be okay with or without a PhD.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

Thanks! I sure hope so... My mom says Easter is a time of death and rebirth, so I picked a good time to get out... We shall see.