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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Campfire, and the smell of woodsmoke on clothing the day after.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Grass, lily and petrichor.

Bonus points if all combined :)

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I hate the taste of coffee but the smell is heavenly

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Like walking past a Starbucks.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Or the coffee isle in the grocery store

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cheap old books, when the paper turns brittle and yellow or even orange.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

The way libraries used to smell before they became homeless shelters. Not hating on anyone who needs a warm place to be. Just sucks it falls to the libraries to be that place.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

My dachshund's feet. Seriously. They smell something like popcorn sometimes.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My chicken after she's been dust bathing, or when it rains.

The dust bathing brings in an earthy note to her natural birdy scent. She just smells like a little nature spirit might, if such things were real.

When it rains, she's usually under cover (though sometimes she gets out into it), but she's picks to the petrichor aroma of rain and soil. She'll carry that scent all evening usually, so when she comes inside and is nestled up next to me, there's the normal bird smell, but also that rich aroma that a gentle rain brings, that usually fades quickly.

Mind you, I also love her normal smell, that almost dusty book, nose tickling smell of bird, colored with the mild earthiness and slight tang that's all chicken.

Luckily, she doesn't mind being sniffed occasionally :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Now i want to sniff your chicken. She sounds delightful.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Bird sniffers unite!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Dogs. A place where dogs have been living has such a comforting smell to it. Also their paws smell so nice

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago

A combination of the smells from my grandfather's shed: sawdust, machine oil and petrol from the lawn mower, freshly cut grass, leather, his pipe tabacco, and just a hint of whisky from the bottle he used to keep in there. He had a couple of old, leather, wing-back chairs in there and sometimes at the weekend after mowing the lawn we'd just sit and talk in his shed for a bit while he smoked his pipe and had a wee dram.

Sadly long gone (he died in the late 80s) but I get hints of it occasionally. Sometimes I'll smell maybe the lawnmower smells in my own shed and my brain will fill in the rest and I'll feel small and safe and warm and comfortable just for a moment or two.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago

I'm surprised no one put crayons on here yet (I don't really care either way but it seems like something that would go on this thread).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Horse feed. Sweet feed to be exact.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (8 children)

No one is going to say bacon?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I woke up early yesterday and the one and only reason I got out of bed instead of going back to sleep is because someone was cooking bacon and the smell made its way up to my room.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (13 children)

Rain, and then a thunderstorm.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Cedar. There's nothing like pulling a blanket out of a cedar chest and surrounding yourself in it.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago (3 children)

The smell of minced garlic and onion as they're cooking.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Weird one, but I have pet birds. They smell AMAZING. Just stick your nose right up to their feathers and huff. They kinda smell a bit like corn chips, or laundry dried outside in the sun, dusty and earthy and warm.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I so feel that :)

Our birds are chickens, so they pick up the extra smells of grass and soil as well, but there's still that "birdiness" too, and I love it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

vinegar, just can’t get enough of it

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Salty air, leather, books, a wet or dry forest, my cat's fur, fresh bread, my homemade vanilla, coconut scented anything, woodsmoke, fresh snow, & my boo ❤️

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

New packs of cards when the shrinkwrap is removed.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

The smell of freshly cooked rice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Freshly harvested cannabis is my favorite smell, far and away

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Lots of nice smells, but I'll just list a stranger one I like. Dry hay.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Pizza cooking in the oven. Fresh laundry. Slight electrical warm smell of a heater (not burning). Petrichor mixed with city smells. Smell of asphalt in the sun (takes me back to childhood and drawing with chalk with a childhood friend).

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Cooking bell peppers on a frying pan. Add onions and it's even better.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

2-stroke mopeds

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago

Cut grass, gas/petrol, books.. lots of smells really. Some weirder than others :3

Since it's the time for planting tomatoes where I live, I'll also point them out as smelling nice

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Coffee. Fresh roasted coffee smells heavenly.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Unburned rolling tobacco in the pack, fresh cut evergreen, a just-opened pack of post-it notes, petrol, the oily/greasy smell of a machine shop, charcoal barbecue.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Cats. Their natural oils smell like fresh laundry!

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That smell that tells you it's Spring.

Fresh bread.

Gasoline.

Bleach.

That head shop incense smell.

The smell of detergent or fabric softener from a nearby house doing laundry.

Whatever that syrup is they use for canned peaches and fruit salad cups.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Allll of my partner. Mmmmm.

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