I'm not trans but I hate this as well 😭 my beard grows uneven so I can't even leave it on if I wanted to
Meanwhile my hairline loses land faster than the netherlands would if they didn't build dams
I'm not trans but I hate this as well 😭 my beard grows uneven so I can't even leave it on if I wanted to
Meanwhile my hairline loses land faster than the netherlands would if they didn't build dams
Dikes, not dams :) Though I guess we also have dams?
Anyway, fuck facial hair.
I've only lived here for a few months still learning, thanks for the correction I'm learning!
Oh wow, I didn't know that. Welcome!
How are you finding it so far?
I hope you'll have a good time living here :)
Moved from just over the border (Belgium) so not a huuuuge change in life but liking it here! Actually signing tomorrow to buy an appartement so here to stay :p
The only thing I got a heart attack about was my health insurance costs being about 14x higher than Belgium but more net salary made up for it xD
That’s not much of a culture shock, that’s for sure :) Still, I hope you’ll enjoy your new home.
And yes, health insurance isn’t cheap. I mean it isn’t US levels, but I wouldn’t mind if it was a bit cheaper :)
Oh damn hitting close to home today
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I'm not sure if you're actually asking, or expressing the emotions involved in meme form, and I don't want to possibly make those emotions worse by bringing up the physiology of it without asking first. But, I do know a little about that specific subject, so I'm willing to type that out, if you're interested.
Not what I'm asking, but share your knowledge friend! perhaps behind a spoiler as another catgirl suggested
Another catgirl did have a great idea :)
I'll add that if someone wants to avoid mentions of the various chemicals of the body, probably best to not uncover the text
so, part of how hair gets turned from the delicate "peach fuzz" called vellus into a beard is testosterone. That's pretty obvious, I guess, but it bears saying.
T, and DHT spike during puberty. This leads to us growing thicker hair across our bodies, even for those folks with ovaries and no testicles. The combination of DHT and T moves into the follicles, into the actual cells involved in growing hair.
Now, I'd have to go back and re-read a bunch of stuff to be accurate and detailed about the changes inside those cells, and it sound be jargon anyway. But the gist is that the way the keratin is produced, and the cells layer is increased, leading to a thicker and tougher hair. This change is to the cells themselves, the cells of the follicle that produce hair. This means that once those follicles are exposed to androgens, it becomes permanent, within a given range of permanence.
Even when you take anti-androgens, they can't undo the changes already made. And, unfortunately, estrogen and other feminizing hormones don't cause the kind of changes that could completely undo the effects of testosterone.
What the feminizing hormones can do is decrease the effects of those changes. The good thing is that those changes tend to be equally permanent, within a given range of permanence. The hair will be thinner, softer (as in less coarse) and may be able to get longer (largely genetics). Until and unless testosterone is returned to the system whatever changes do occur from HRT will remain, even if the HRT is discontinued.
Which means that it takes a combination of efforts to eliminate the thicker, coarser hairs produced under testosterone. You have to eliminate or suppress the T itself, while applying a feminizing agent, then use methodology to either further reduce the thickness from there (like repeated plucking/waxing as one example), or use a mostly permanent removal method line electrolysis.
!There's always edge cases, though. Not everyone that goes through male puberty ends up with the same degree of hair changes. So there's people that just anti-androgens will cause enough reduction in the effects that it would be comparable to someone that went through female puberty. For some people, they can have massive testosterone doses and never grow a beard at all, they get a slightly thicker version of the vellus hairs; genetics can be weird like that.!<
Laser hair removal
That's both expensive and not available where I live :P It is the long term goal however.
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