If you're interested then go ask.
Don't try to figure it all out ahead of time.
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she told me she doesn’t want to go outside because men stare at her and it makes her embarrassed
we both are raised in strict hanafi families
Ah then any safe space for her in which you can get to know eachother but gives her an easy exit if she wants.
You could ask
Well she came up to me and hit on me once. Later she signed some paperwork to make me her wife. I'm pretty sure she likes me after all that
She could be Canadian. Keep your wits about you and watch for signs..
When you are in a circle of friends they will stand slightly closer to you then anyone else and when you talk they seem to pay more attention to what you are saying compared to what the group is discussing.
What's the context and age? Does she laugh at your jokes more than with other people's jokes? Really it's hard to know because you need to first establish the person's baseline.
Like for example whoever suggested the hair behind the ear thing, it could be, but it also could be that they do that too often. I'm one of these too oftens for hair behind the ear and I tend to gesture more at my ears too because I can't always hear perfectly.
So, yeah there's a hundred tell tale signs but you first need to have something to compare them to.
there's a lot of local/cultural factors
best is to just listen to your inner voice, i guess.
Mine just says "KILL GOKU KILL GOKU"
There sure is no all encompassing, easy answer, but that is a little off. Like telling a color blind person to "just look at the color".
I think the better advice is to find a trusted friend in one's local culture instead of troll-y internet randos who could be on the other side of the world.
Certainly.
The hair behind ear thing with eye contact
Be careful with this one. As someone who has to be intentional about making eye contact, it does not mean I like you.
And moving hair is just... moving hair.
Agreed, as one with long hair I do the thing with pushing them behind my ears so it won't be in my face
it won’t be in my faec
face or feces/faeces? Probably makes a difference.
The woman who makes direct eye contact with you while adjusting her ass crack hairs definitely has some sort of feelings towards you.
That's no lady, that's my wife!