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Warning, this story is really horrific and will be heartbreaking for any fans of his, but Neil Gaiman is a sadistic [not in the BDSM sense] sexual predator with a predilection for very young women.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago

I'm really disappointed in Amanda Palmer. This does not paint a pretty picture of her.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Wow. Several of the instances described are quite clearly rape; with some horrible scarring and degrading stuff through in; exploiting power-imbalance to make it possible. What I struggle to fully understand though are the text messages mentioned in the story. Gaiman argues that there was consent, and there are things said in those text messages that might support him. But the other circumstances, and the pattern of behaviour across multiple victims surely is enough to overrule that.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Pleasing your abuser and even returning to them because all you have ever known is abuse and they are showing you attention is extremely common. This situation sounds like one of those.

Edit: In the article they also point out that she didn't actually think of it as rape until she described the situation to others. Which is something I have heard more than one other rape victim say.

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