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jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.

Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.

Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It’s just a random person that registered a domain. Be the change you want to see and make your own?

[–] [email protected] -3 points 7 hours ago

I mean, personally I don't disagree with that random person 😂

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (2 children)

Valid concern imo, Dev's are just dickheads

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[–] [email protected] 105 points 21 hours ago (6 children)

That feels like complaints about lemmy.ml specifically more than Lemmy as a software. There's a few instances that defederate lemmy.ml out there.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 hours ago

How much effort do you think Meta, Twitter, and Reddit put into getting open social media people to fight against themselves?

[–] [email protected] 37 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

They can do whatever shit they want with their instance and believe whatever they want. The software they make provably doesn't have any more biases than any other software. As long as that's the case, I'm fine.

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[–] [email protected] 85 points 21 hours ago (32 children)

Lemmy was removed due to:

  • reports of how the developers handle certain types of content (post removed, view an incomplete archive)
  • the behavior of its creator
  • how the sotware itself handles users' privacy.

All valid concerns.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 16 hours ago

The linked post given on the second point is a bit flimsy. It's basically saying that if you use evidence published by a person with shitty views, you must have them too. To me, that's absurd as claiming that referencing FBI statistics makes someone a federal agent.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 21 hours ago (15 children)

Point 1 and 2 really need to be addressed.

It would be so much better if lemmy wasn't developed by genocide white-washing tankies.

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[–] realcaseyrollins 43 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (29 children)

I hate it when people try to gatekeep like this. I don't need to be handheld. If there's a Fediverse alternative to something and it mostly works, it should be on the website. Anything less is not useful at best.

Edit: I say this as someone who has historically criticized the behavior of the devs as well as multiple Lemmy communities BTW.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (3 children)

These concerns, and more, are why just today, during a conversation with some friends looking to get off traditional social media, I advised them to join pixelfed, peer tube, mastodon, and loops, but suggested they strictly avoid Lemmy.

The communities aren’t right for anyone who isn’t seeking something exactly like Lemmy or leftie-Reddit-lite. I don’t even really like it here all that much anymore. Not the content; the interactions… across all my accounts.. even joining “nicer” spaces is not a particularly nice or pleasant experience, plus the more interested is a woman, and Lemmy is a horrible sausagefest echo chamber not at all suited to a normal average woman person who isn’t techie. I’m techie, so I’m used to the vibe, but for your average cis-woman, Lemmy is a very very bad fit.

Bring on the downvotes if you like (the echo-chamber anti-voice sentiment is part of why people shouldn’t be recommended this platform, after all) but these are legit concerns for people who may want to join, and those of us already here can and do steer people elsewhere as a result.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Same honestly. I never discussed politics on Reddit, but it's all the content that's here. Partly why I don't recommend it to anyone i know who uses Reddit. Most content just isn't normie-friendly here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It’s so depressing and aggressive, honestly. I can’t do that to my friends who don’t do that already.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 21 hours ago (19 children)

To me the first one is an instance problem (ml, hexbear?), and not a lemmy problem. It has looked like they've been trying to separate the two as much as possible.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 16 hours ago

It has mbin and piefed on the list, so it’s not harming the network at all. If anything it’s more healthy with more platforms rather than just ml and world. It’s one site directing people to the fedi, I’m not butthurt about it

[–] [email protected] 31 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Nutomic and Dessalines may be tankies, but they're our tankies

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Not wrong lol. I dislike their behavior but still contribute code to lemmy.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago (7 children)

They may be your tankis, but they sure arent our tankies.

They can fuck right off

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 21 hours ago (22 children)

It's almost certainly because of the tankie factory that is .ml and the fact that it's admins are all hard core tankies (including the main dev! And ofc the whole infamous Nutomic transphobe incident)

Coupled with the fact that a few of the biggest communities are on .ml does not bode well.

That's why I keep calling for a general boycott against posting content or comments on .ml communities.

.ml doesn't want growth, they want a tankie echo chamber, if anybody wants to actually see Lemmy grow at a healthy pace it starts with shuning the hostile tankies and their instances.

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