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Sorry about the awkward title; I had a lot of trouble trying to word it.

Anyway, I got my first pair of glasses yesterday. I went in for my first eye exam in nearly a decade, and apparently I have mild astigmatism. So for the past day I've been getting used to the sensation of having glasses on (I never cared for sunglasses, personally; I've always found them hard to see in) and getting a touch of euphoria about how they conceal the brow somewhat. But then it kinda hit me that I don't really know anything about glasses, having not used them until age 36. I probably should have asked some questions about it when I picked them up, but I was kinda sick and didn't want to stick around there too long.

I know I could just google it, but google sucks now, plus, I may as well use the AskBeehaw platform, it's pretty quiet.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

Keep a copy of your prescription so you can buy glasses online for cheap.

Glasses fog up when you go from cold to warm. Clean the lens with soap water and wipe them off to keep them from fogging up. Or use good ol fashioned spit.

Check the screws and whatnot on the hinges periodically. Sometimes they go loose. Depends on the glasses.

They help keep rain and midges away from your eyes, so that's nice.

The nosepads get dirty too, so wipe em down every now and then.

If you play sports and you don't care for contacts, or if you swim, think about getting prescription googles. 100% worth it.

Take them off on the rollercoasters. Put them in your pocket or something.

Buy a spare pair in case of emergencies. This is equivalent to not having a plunger when you need one. You're gonna regret it!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Getting the prescription is important.

Also, they sell 'glasses kits' at most drug stores. Extra screws and a tiny screwdriver, nose pads, etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Check the screws and whatnot on the hinges periodically. Sometimes they go loose. Depends on the glasses.

I did buy rather cheap glasses, so I suspect I'll run into this issue eventually. Thanks! bee emoji

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

If you play sports and you don’t care for contacts, or if you swim, think about getting prescription googles. 100% worth it.

I realise it's a niche thing, but prescription inserts for VR headsets exist too.

Even if normal glasses fit under the headset, keeping the lenses of the glasses lined up with your eyes and the VR headset's lenses is a pain when you start moving about. You just clip those into the headset and problem solved.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (2 children)

If they get bent somehow and don't sit properly on your face anymore, try to avoid bending them back yourself. It's better to have a professional do it. They know where the stress points are and how to do it right without breaking them!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

+1, the optometrist you got your glasses from should be fine with doing free adjustments for you. It takes a minute and they want to keep your future insurance payments.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Be careful when cleaning them, otherwise you'll get scratches. Even expensive ones. Don't use those wipes with alcohol, it'll damage them. Either use soap and water with a clean cloth or sponge and dry by dabbing with kitchen paper. You could also get an ultrasound cleaner, which is like a little bath you just put them in. Don't wipe them when they are not wet.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah, this was part of the reason I made this post. Like, I was really afraid that I'd stupidly scratch up my glasses because I didn't know how to clean them properly. Thanks! bee happy emoji

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (2 children)

If you use a computer a lot, get your optometrist to give you a distance prescription, and a "computer" prescription (which would probably be a few inches past arms' reach). Then buy distance glasses and computer glasses. This is much better - and cheaper - than trying to do the same thing with bifocals.

For frames, I much prefer plastic. The extended nose pieces on metal frames tend to become uncomfortable, where plastic frames will just set of the bridge of the nose. Same goes for the earpieces; thin ones on metal frames can cause discomfort with extended use. Plastic frames aren't going to have screws that hold the lenses in, nothing to get loose or lost or stripped out and unworkable.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

People in this thread are way more cautious with their glasses than I am. I clean them on my shirt frequently! They do scratch slightly over time, but there's a 0% chance I'll consistently remember a cleaning wipe every time I'd need one. I have 0 scratches that I can notice, and my current pair is a bit over a year old. I tend to get a new pair every year or 2, and I highly recommend Zenni! I've been buying from them for like 10 years now, 0 issues.

Anti-reflection coating is fantastic, so is the anti-oil coating. Anti-fog coating sucks and it's worth it (it needs to be "activated" regularly with a special cloth??). The blue light blocking lenses don't really seem to do anything, but they don't hurt either.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Make sure to get a pair that actually fit your head. They shouldn't squeeze your temples, the ear bends should actually be on your ears, they shouldn't slide around on your nose.

I wore glasses for like twenty years before I finally realized the source of every single problem I had with them was actually me picking the wrong frames and not inherent issues to glasses. Now that I'm aware of it I notice other people wearing ill-fitting glasses all the time.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Clip-on sunglasses suck, and bad ones can damage your frame or glasses. Get some cheap prescription sunglasses. Get a hard clamshell case for it that will also fit your regular glasses for easy swapping.

Also, replace nosepads every year or so and clean the gunk that collects behind it in the nosepad holder leg thingy. That thing is a gunk magnet.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If you have to wear them constantly, like I do, remember to wipe them down with a gentle soap periodically. The spaces between the frames and the lenses will collect gunk that makes you think something is in your eyes and drive you crazy.

@paris mentioned one online retailer already but to give you another option: I've been using Zenni for my prescriptions for a few years now and have been happy with them.

Sometimes a vendor or optometrist isn't contracted with your vision plan, but you can often submit for reimbursement; some health insurances (since eye health isn't health, somehow) will also allow you to submit for reimbursement so check your policies, if applicable.

I tend to order two non-tinted pairs and a pair of prescription sunglasses when my Rx changes noticeably - one pair is made of safety polycarbonate (shatter/puncture resistant) and the other is more standard, but it's nice to have options to choose from. As you go through them, please make sure to donate your old prescriptions! I've sent most of mine to the Peninsula Special Interest Lions Club in CA but there are a number of charities that will send your old lenses and frames to people who need them

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (3 children)

If you can afford it, get another pair with 'transition' lenses that get darker in direct sunlight. Regular glasses are going to make sunlight more powerful; I used to get headaches every summer unless I wore a hat all the time. It's easier to just have the one set that get darker than to fool around with prescription sunglasses and noraml ones.

There are swimming goggles with prescription lenses available. They cost about the same as normal goggles, and make sports much more enjoyable.

If your prescription is mild, you may be able to get away with using reading glasses from the drug store. Most of the bigger places have a rack where you can try them on.

Pets often enjoy chewing on the glasses, so be sure you put them in a safe place every night.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My biggest gripe with transition lenses is that they won't change while operating a vehicle, since most windshields are also uv treated. I'd rather have lenses that clip or a pair of sunglasses to swap to

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I never noticed that, but I don't drive often.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I used to drive a lot for work, and it kind of ruined the transition lenses for me but other folks' mileage may vary

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

That's actually really good to know. My glasses came with a magnetic sunglass attachment, so I'll make sure to make use of that. Thanks! bee party emoji

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Where did you get your glasses with the magnetic sunglasses? I have a pair and I love the sunglasses attachment but most places only carry like one style that have the sunglases so I'm always on the lookout for other styles.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I don't think I've ever seen that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I much prefer clip ons to transitions. Transitions left me with white circles over my eyes in summer, when every other part of my face tanned except where the glasses sat. I also couldn't turn them off when needed.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

If you work in an environment where you go from cold to warm and they fog up often, you can get antifog treatments that don't last forever but do help keep them clear.

Buying a few pairs from cheap online sellers like goggles4u can save you a bunch of money. The antiglare coatings are applied to almost every lens already so don't bother paying for more coatings.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Keeping a few of those little lens cleaning cloths in convenient places is about all I can think of. They launder fine too, if you notice any become less effective at removing smears.

If you ever need a new prescription, they should be able to put the new lenses in your current frame. Similarly, if your frame ever gets broken but your lenses are undamaged, they can pop them in a new frame. That said, keeping old glasses as spares is useful, and it can be fun to have new frames.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

People have mostly covered the important stuff, so something less important is: if you are liable to take them off with any regularity, you're gonna lose them on top of your head! I keep mine on pretty much any time I'm awake and not doing something specifically anti glasses (think swimming), but I know especially people who are farsighted while watching TV or nearsighed while reading will do this.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Lenses scratch over time, plastic ones faster than glass ones. The coatings are the first to go, so you can use that as a warning sign to get a new pair ASAP. Try to keep them in a microfiber lined case or pouch, not just a random shirt pocket.

If you start seeing "starburst" effects around lights at night, it means the lenses most likely are scratched.

Only clean them with a microfiber cloth, and never dry. At the very least, breathe on them to have some moisture. Blow on them first to get rid of any dust that would come off easily. Avoid rubbing dust into them, even with the microfiber cloth. It's best to use a single motion from one edge to the other, ideally while pulling the cloth away so dirty parts don't get dragged along the lens (takes a bit of practice). Shake the cloth off after each pass. Goes without saying, but clean hands are required to keep the cloth clean.

If you really have to, you can put them under running water, but beware of corrosion in any metal parts (frame, hinges, screws). Shake off leftover water, then clean with a microfiber cloth. DO NOT use a hairdryer on plastic lenses or frames. Depending on the water hardness, it might leave mineral deposits behind, so it's generally better to avoid it. Rain is usually fine, unless you get into acid rain, or dusty rain.

Chromatic aberration is inevitable, so no point in fighting it or panicking, it just comes with the territory. With a good pair of glasses, whatever you're looking at straight ahead, should look fine though. If it doesn't, consider getting back to your optician for a better fit.

Random reflections and glare are a thing too. There are coatings to mitigate them, which makes sense for like driving at night, but you might get by without them, YMMV.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Buy a few cheap pairs online right away. Expensive glasses are not worth the cost.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I don't wear mine often, but I find that somehow the corners always get smudges on them no matter how careful I am to not touch the lenses. Keep a microfiber cloth around to clean them.

I use EyeBuyDirect for my glasses and don't have any complaints. They come in a box with a microfiber bundle to carry them glasses in and wipe them off with. Obviously since it's online you'll have to be careful about getting a pair that fits correctly, but if you get a temporary or cheap pair in real life that you know the measurements of you can find a pair with similar stats.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Pay close attention to the fitting, tightness of the nose pads, bends of the arms. Shape all that so they won’t fling off off you look down quickly or if you flick you head to the side.

Also, be aware that they will fog up when you pass from a warm environment to a cool humid one. Or like, when you open an oven or rice cooker.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You can adjust them, but it is better if you get them adjusted wherever you bought them because they know how to do it properly. In particular, the spot where they touch your nose might get sore, and maybe moreso on one side than the other. That'd be a sign to get them adjusted. Some people even have one ear slightly lower than the other, needing an adjustment to the arms.

Glasses have an optimum focal point so your glasses were meant to be a particular distance from your eyes and over adjusting might change that. On the other hand, the change is going to be so small that it probably only matters to the people selling glasses rather than the wearers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Yeah, they seem to be sitting well on my face now... at least I haven't felt any discomfort. Not sure if I got lucky, though. Thanks! bee happy emoji

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Zeiss lens wipes are the best, but soap and water work great too. Rubbing a towel on your lens will scratch it eventually.

Your glasses are probably cheaper buying them from LensCrafters on your work insurance, but I discovered Roka and will not go back to others even though it's more expensive off insurance. Their glasses are so light, comfortable, and stay on my face. I've been alternating years, glasses one year sunglasses the next to save money so I can splurge on good frames.

Progressive lenses are hella expensive and become necessary in your 40s. They are nice to have when you need them though.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If you travel by auto when wearing tight clothes be sure to mind the extra clearance needed for your glasses when getting inside! One of my trendy larger frames took a scratch that way soon after getting them. Also don't limit yourself to just two pairs but instead get some cheap ones to change up your appearance. Accessorize :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Oh, yes I absolutely plan to play around with some looks. bee happy emoji

The past day has been full of near misses because I still haven't that I have something on my face I need to account for.

Thanks! Also, I've seen you around before, but I love your username!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Thank you! As a witchy agnostic pagan with christotrauma I love your username too. Sorry for the late reply! Taking long breaks from social media is important to me. Btw grats for living rent free in my head for this long :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

When you take them off at night, don't put them lens down directly on furniture or anything like that. You will scratch them. You can either set them on a microfiber cloth face down, lay them the other way (lens up), or get a glasses stand if you're feeling fancy.

You could use your glasses holder, which is what I do when I travel, but I find that being able to access my glasses quickly is more valuable to me.

Also I get discount glasses from Zenni, Costco, or Eyeglass World. I never get just one pair because I am forgetful. If you can swing it, I would get at least one backup pair.

When you get a new prescription, you can keep one pair of the old glasses in case something happens to your current pair(s). (The plan being that you will not be completely screwed, you'll have a "close enough" pair until you can rectify the issue.) If you do that, store them in a case and label the case with the date you got that prescription. I would only keep at most one backup from your old pairs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Thanks for asking this!

I've been using glasses for over two thirds of my life and through this thread I've now discovered the existence of ultrasonic cleaners.

Only advice I have is if you're sensitive to bright lights or have sensory issues.

As someone with pretty significant sensory issues, transition lenses have made my life a lot easier, especially as they got better over time (used to take much longer to go back to normal, but now it's pretty quick).

That said, it's like Marmite. People either love it or hate it. And a lot of people hate it.

Oh, and headphones. If you use headphones a lot, there may sometimes be issues with fit and/or seal.

Things that aren't too tight for people who don't wear glasses can cause a major headache for people that do. While the best option is to try before buying, sometimes you don't get to try then long enough and discover later when you're trying to listen to music. Check reviews which will often mention whether or not people with glasses find them comfy first.

Sometimes it also breaks the seal a tiny bit and could cause the sound to be a smidge less bassy, although I've never actually experienced anything particularly significant when it comes to that myself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Also, in ear headphones and speakers exist if you are like me and can't find a pair of on/around ear headphones that don't make your ears sad when you wear your glasses.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I'm glad this thread has helped!

I'd say I do have have sensory issues, but they're mostly audio/feel/taste related, not visual. That being said, I've been indoors most of the time so far, so we'll see how the sun affects me.

I have a pair of over ear headphones that I haven't tried with these on yet. I put them on and at first, anyway, they seem to be comfy enough. Does seem a bit quieter than usual, though.

Thanks! bee party emoji

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

For years I was the only one in my family that didn't wear glasses. When the doctor told me I needed glasses, I was so happy. I found glasses distinct, elegant, and, in girls, very very cute (my wife just started wearing glasses... wowza!).

My "real" me, the one I like and recognize in the mirror, has glasses on. And it's not one of those glasses that pretend they're not even there -- it's a thick black frame that dominates and complements my face.

I could totally get away with not wearing glasses in some situations, but (1) I like the visual comfort, and (2) I love wearing glasses.

Get the glasses that make you feel like yourself.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Yeah, I feel exposed without my glasses. I had the same pair of frames for well over a decade, so they were basically an integral part of "my face". Only got a new pair a couple of years ago to replace them because time did eventually wear 'em down.

Also, they do good job masking the ever-present racoon bags under my eyes, which is nice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I too have mild astigmatism. I used glasses for about 4 years before trying contact lenses. Have been using contacts for 10 years now and i much prefer them.

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