I am roughly in the same boat. But I was a bit familiar with vim bindings hence I went the doom route.
If you are starting fresh with emacs, then I'd recommend just going with the standard key bindings. System crafters have an excellent series on YouTube. Also, Mastering Emacs is a resource I cannot recommend enough. The website and the book are packed with all sorts of neat stuff. I also remember coming across something called Uncle Dave's emacs series on YouTube
If you don't want to start with plain jane vanilla emacs, there's Purcell's emacs.d repository on github.
Emacs wiki is also a very excellent source and has some other community recommended starter kits.
But all this aside, in general, I'd recommend to pick a couple resources that resonate with you and stick with it. The more you play, the better your intuition will develop and you'll start figuring out stuff on your own, trust me. The strongest advice I can give you is to not be overwhelmed and try to learn everything at once