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DISCLAIMER: this isn't a substitute for therapy and/or medication. Sometimes therapy isn't accessible. Sometimes we have a bad week and need to recenter ourselves.

I think we can learn from each other and find methods we didn't even know about! What's helpful to another may be ineffective to another, and I think learning about an array of methods would be valuable.

What's been helpful for me:

  • Spending time in nature
  • Journaling (I would google journal prompts pertaining to my predicaments)
  • Guided meditations on Youtube
  • Free worksheets: https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheets (my therapist who specialized in CBT used some of these during our sessions, I'm glad they're free)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Bicycling by far!

You can get a cheap used bike if you don’t want to nerd out about parts etc.

The way my mind is cleared when I’m going for a ride is something that I have not achieved by any other means. Also the mood boost lasts quite a while for me.

Just make sure the bike fits your body and also get a helmet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

For me it was helpful to start running :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This might be more darkly humorous than you are looking for, but at the onset of WWII I've read that many civilians suddenly had a full or partial remission of symptoms for the duration of the war.

Being part of a society in crisis that's all pulling in the same direction can take your mind off your own problems, at least for a while. Call it the Ozymandias effect?

It's not enough to hope a war breaks out, but maybe there's something at the heart of it we can grasp. Maybe what some of us really lack is purpose, or a sense of belonging. These aren't easy to solve for, but I'm sure it's worth a look inward.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's beautiful and horrifying at the same time

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Humanity in a nutshell innit

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
  • Taking walks in nature
  • Meditating
  • Dragging myself away from the doomscroll box.
  • Going out and seeing friends
  • Seeing a therapist (OK, that one's not so low-cost...)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago
  • Singing
  • Crying it out
  • Journaling
  • Getting enough sleep
  • Spending time in the sun
  • choosing to avoid arguments
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Lemme toss in here the symptom management checklist in DBT:

  • Take your meds on time, as per directed.
  • Sleep eight hours a day (or the amount that works for you.)
  • Eat square meals on a consistent schedule. Most of us work with three, with light snacking. Stay fluidated.
  • Get some exercise, a bit of moving about should do (say a walk around the block).
  • Engage in some social contact, ideally with a friend or loved one with whom you're not dealing with immediate drama.

Doing these things consistently should reduce the likelihood of your symptoms getting unmanageable (mileage will vary).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can only speak for my self but gardening has really helped me find my center

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

@CantSt0pPoppin @phonecase Me too. Knitting gives me a sense of focus and presence too.

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