It's very common for deconverts to turn to other belief systems. Both my wife and girlfriend are ex-Christian, but they ultimately turned to paganism. It makes them happy and they don't require me to agree with them, so tolerance is possible.
For myself, I think we experience things we don't understand all the time. The problem is that "I don't know" doesn't justify "therefore god/magic/supernatural." I don't question that people experience extraordinary things. I question their conclusions about things they don't understand.