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Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I joined lemmy.world initially because it seemed like the main general instance. But with the recent frequent downtimes, I made an alt on monyet.cc because it's regionally closer to me. I use both fairly equally nowadays.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I joined my instance because it's smaller. As a result everything seems a lot more responsive.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I was on lemmy.ml at the start of the blackout, but it kept crashing, then went to shit just works because they seemed pretty loose and I didn't want my feed censored like a lot of other instances were on about.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We were at a coffee shop. Her names tiff my names biff. We both ordered mocha chapaccino Expresso double almond milk lattes... Both us us grabbed for the same cup when they called our name...

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I just started using kbin.social after not really feeling satisfied with Mastodon personally, wanting something more topical like Lemmy, but I still wanted some Mastodon compatibility due to most of my mutuals on the Fediverse using Mastodon. Landed myself here, so far so good!

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

admin is nice. felt cozy when i first loaded it up
btw I've got a (free) domain: beeg.pp.ua and an old craptop, so I'm thinking about self-hosting my instance

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

because I made it >:) muahaha

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I use kbin.social mostly because I liked the interface better and I wanted to be contrary, and if I ever self-host it, I'm much more familiar with PHP than Rust.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I started on kbin because it's an easy to remember name/address and I liked the ui, but not great on mobile so I had to join another when I downloaded jerboa. Chose lemmy.zip because I too am tech focused and the name is also easy to remember. I am also on beehaw because the community seemed cool and again its easy to remember url, but didn't even realize it was part of the same system when I joined, lol.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A pleasant surprise for sure.

We have a public beta of Artemis for Kbin BTW, you should check it out if you haven't already!

Also I like how lemmy.zip sounds.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

im a programmer

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I originally joined lemmy via lemmy.fmhy.ml, 'cause you know, my "Linux ISO's" needs to get well distributed.

However, they got in trouble and I like Lemmy, so I started looking for other instances. Eventually, I found monero.town and since I already use monero.social as my matrix home, I signed up for it.

Never encountered any problems with it. The devs also seem pretty cool.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

represeeent

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I thought the name was cool, and I liked that it was a relatively smaller instance. I tried a few other instances just for the sake of shopping around, but Lemmy.zip just seems nice. Admins are cool, too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Take a look at this post. Observe all the offensive comments.

None of them are visible on Beehaw. That's why I'm still on this instance.

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