submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
 

Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[–] 114 points 3 years ago (10 children)
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[–] 51 points 3 years ago (4 children)

Irreverent commentary, staunchly pro LGBT community, correct opinions hexbear-retro

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    [–] 48 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (2 children)

    Come for the dirt bag leftism, stay for the aggressive anti-bigotry initiatives and correct takes.

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  • [–] 44 points 3 years ago (47 children)

    I was on lemmygrad at first but then they banned me for being a liberal so now I'm on hexbear

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    [–] 43 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    Because we have a dope ass bear og-hex-bear

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  • [–] 41 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    I'm the admin of mine and also like books and writing

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    [–] 39 points 3 years ago (3 children)
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    [–] 38 points 3 years ago (5 children)

    I’ve been on Hexbear the entire time. It’s inclusive, yet has zero tolerance for reactionary attitudes.

    Also since federation we actually have been complaining the quality of posts we see have gone down. You all lack an energy that made r/cth and hexbear such a breath of fresh air.

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    [+] 35 points 3 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)
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    [–] 34 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    I started with Lemmy.world but then moved to Lemmy.nz because it was faster.

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    [–] 33 points 3 years ago* (2 children)

    i joined chacha as a lifeboat years ago when the CTH reddit got banned and stayed as it became Ursus hexagonalis. the lack of ads, the memes, irreverence for institutions combined with respect for humans, and the absolute god-tier emoji selection is what keeps me here.
    meow-fiesta

    also, the megathread topics are very interesting/informative as a People's History, since many of the stories come from the "periphery" for all my world systems nerds out there. living in the imperial core, the constant cacophony of cultural outputs and hegemonic discourses, i appreciate any channel that connects me with post-colonial narratives, critical theory, etc.

    glasses-on fanon sankara-salute

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    [–] 31 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    Been here on Chapo chat, now hexbear since the beginning. Joined before federation was even a thing. Only instance with mandatory pronouns, one of a few with good political takes.

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    [–] 30 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    I followed the Daystrom Institute community from reddit to startrek.website.

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    [–] 29 points 3 years ago (6 children)
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    [–] 29 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    Piracy πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

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    [–] 26 points 3 years ago (4 children)

    moved there from lemmy.world because of downtime and also unclear, sloppy defederation policies. i've never seen a clear explanation why it took a month to defederate exploding heads (allowing their userbase to grow 3x) and week for rammy site, but hexbear gets defederated "preemptively". ???

    also now i see beehaw content which is something i didn't expected, but it's cool

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    [–] 24 points 3 years ago (8 children)

    Beehaw cuz I heard they had strong moderation and don't shy away from defederation. Also bees.

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    [+] 24 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)
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    [–] 24 points 3 years ago*

    I was on r/chapotraphouse before we got banned from Reddit. I joined chapo.chat after it was made by old r/cth users, and chacha became hexbear.net like maybe a year later.

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  • [–] 23 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    I’ve just been here since CTH got binned.

    I have no plans to look anywhere else. I think federation is a fad, and I won’t participate elsewhere.

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  • [–] 22 points 3 years ago (4 children)

    Honestly, I liked that they followed electoral politics, helping me fulfill my sick, taboo desires.

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    [–] 21 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    The shark, mostly.

    Also because I'm on their Calckey instance too.

    And this: blobcat, box

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    [–] 21 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    Shit just works. Except when it goes down. But mostly. Still, the name is fire.

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    [–] 20 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    I'd rather comrades than liberals where my home instance is concerned; but I didn't have a temperature gauge for what hexbear posted like. Might make a hexbear alt in case something happens to the grad, tho; they're good folks so far.

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    [–] 19 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    Because it has a tank logo

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    [–] 19 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (2 children)

    Started on kbin.social and beehaw.org. Realized I liked Lemmy just a little more early on and stuck with Beehaw. But then they started to defederate from larger instances with open signups. So I joined lemmy.world to be part of the bigger picture. Then it got too big and people want to play the DDoS game, so now I've got this alt on lemm.ee as well. We'll see where it goes from here. πŸ˜‚

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    [–] 19 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    There's an instance for my country so I just joined that one.

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