Some of you had never been in forums, public chatrooms or even Tumblr, and it shows...
Don't go sharing personal/sensible information here. There's no privacy, no end-to-end encryption on the fediverse.
what you share by private message is visible not only to you and the person/people you're talking to, but also by your server admins and the admin of the servers the people you send the messages to belong to.