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[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Trigger warning: the word tra*ma

I like to think of myself as pretty supportive, but is there really any evidence that specifically reading the word "trauma" is traumatic? And if so, is the removal of the "U" really a solution to that?

Because it seems like asterixing one letter is more of a performative measure to signify ones support for the overall cause rather than an actually means to reduce suffering.

How close can the "U" be before it starts to upset someone?

"Tra u ma"

Uuuuuuuuuuuuu Tra ma Uuuuuuuuuuuuuu

I don't believe that someone who is affected by the word "trauma" would view the above examples with a complete non-reaction because the U is vaguely obfuscated.

Like, we can agree that the asterix is just a display of consideration to someone, rather than an actually effective measure, right?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It's actually counterproductive! People who want to screen stuff about abuse from their internet experience can set up filters. Those filters are broken when you censor the relevant words!

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but does that matter if using the asterisk helps those not the victim of abuse feel better about their day? They are the real victims 🤣

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

If the word triggers some symptom, then why would that same word, "hidden" by a trick that wouldn't faze a six-year-old, be any less harmful?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

It wouldn't. You may want to reread my comment.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

::: spoiler

Trauma

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