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You know, like "always split on 18," or "having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life."

What's that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"All kids think they are smarter than their parents." - my father, constantly growing up

What I learned: Never tell anyone else how to think or feel about anything. Anyone that tries to shape your thinking directly is a fool.

Intelligence is like beauty, we don't have a very good frame of reference to perceive ourselves. Physical beauty is largely measured by the reactions of others. Like beauty, intelligence has many facets. However my favorite measuring stick is curiosity. This is how I overcame my father's admonition; while curiosity does not guarantee intelligence, an intelligent person is always curious.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Nah... if someone keeps trying to stick a fork in the light socket or tries to hurt other people, I think its pretty justified to try to change the thinking that leads to that behavior.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

If someone doesn't know what a fork and a light socket are and can't otherwise deduce what they are based on context, maybe it makes sense to stick a fork in a light socket.

Once.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Being curious doesn’t some how prevent you from having common sense

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

The fact that you dont seem to understand why trying to stop someone from "sticking a fork in a light socket" might be a good idea is concerning.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

The concerning part is your idiotic assertions

The response is a purposeful obtuse way to make a binary snide comment. These one comment judgments are tired and just not a good way to grade much. Be more creative at least.