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It totally does matter. I don't know who's on the other side of that, or what they're dealing with.
It does depend on the nature of the trolling. I'm saying these things mostly with hindsight -- I definitely don't troll any more, and when I did, it was really just like getting in reddit arguments and then commenting nonsense. So, pretty benign stuff. I don't feel much guilt because honestly, while I was being an asshole, I wasn't ever really mean. And I was young, and I've come to terms with the fact that I made mistakes as a kid.
Nowadays my online assholery is mostly reserved for people who initiate trash talk in Rocket League. And even then, I'll just hit em with "ur bad". I consider that being an asshole, but I don't consider myself an asshole because of it.
But I get what you're saying. I am kinda making it out as if it's okay to be a dick online. It isn't. I guess its hard to balance that with the understanding that it is just easier to fall into the trap of assholery behind a screen, or a windshield, or anonymous comment.