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I don't even know if there is a country where you are obligated to financially support a parent or even a brother under any circumstance.
If you support a parent or a direct sibling, it is only because you want to do it and, as others have said, should be done only if it's financially possible for you without sacrificing your wellbeing, decent living condition and future.
My dad left my mom when I was around 6 years old (I'm in my early 30 now), that person is just related with me by "blood" but he never supported me or my mom financially or in any other way. If he came to me now asking for any type of help, I would refuse without question. On the other hand, I owe everything I am to my mother, she sacrificed everything to give me the best path she could by herself. She is now close to retirement and in my country there is no way to live off savings or pension due to very hi inflation, so I will support her from that point forward in every way I can, but this is only because I feel that doing so is a way to be grateful of her taking care of me on her own and I want to give her back now that I'm able to.