▲ 563 ▼ How much for cuddles? (lemm.ee) submitted 2 years ago by sag@lemm.ee to c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world 210 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world -3 points 2 years ago (1 child) He seems horribly annoying to force people in relationships to have to take the mommy manager role before he’ll wipe his own asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MaoZedongers@lemmy.today 15 points 2 years ago (2 children) That's much bigger leap based on the info we have permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago Relationships are a two way street, and dynamics like this are pretty common. It's sometimes called over/under functioning or codependency in substance abuse. It could be the over functioner just tore the other person down, or the under functioner was susceptible already or drew it out of the over functioner. I agree it's really difficult to know based on limited data, and all we can say is this is strange and comes across as infantilizing but if it works for them then whatever tbh. Not my relationship to care about permalink fedilink source parent [–] papertowels@lemmy.one 1 point 2 years ago* Does the word "nagging" really suggest she's bad when there's needs to be a transactional economy where he only contributes to the care of his child after trading in his good boy points for a tendies a blowjob? I hope some of the folks in this thread get the partner they deserve. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MaoZedongers@lemmy.today 15 points 2 years ago (2 children) That's much bigger leap based on the info we have permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago Relationships are a two way street, and dynamics like this are pretty common. It's sometimes called over/under functioning or codependency in substance abuse. It could be the over functioner just tore the other person down, or the under functioner was susceptible already or drew it out of the over functioner. I agree it's really difficult to know based on limited data, and all we can say is this is strange and comes across as infantilizing but if it works for them then whatever tbh. Not my relationship to care about permalink fedilink source parent [–] papertowels@lemmy.one 1 point 2 years ago* Does the word "nagging" really suggest she's bad when there's needs to be a transactional economy where he only contributes to the care of his child after trading in his good boy points for a tendies a blowjob? I hope some of the folks in this thread get the partner they deserve. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago Relationships are a two way street, and dynamics like this are pretty common. It's sometimes called over/under functioning or codependency in substance abuse. It could be the over functioner just tore the other person down, or the under functioner was susceptible already or drew it out of the over functioner. I agree it's really difficult to know based on limited data, and all we can say is this is strange and comes across as infantilizing but if it works for them then whatever tbh. Not my relationship to care about permalink fedilink source parent
[–] papertowels@lemmy.one 1 point 2 years ago* Does the word "nagging" really suggest she's bad when there's needs to be a transactional economy where he only contributes to the care of his child after trading in his good boy points for a tendies a blowjob? I hope some of the folks in this thread get the partner they deserve. permalink fedilink source parent
