I was an anarchist for a huge part of my life (most of my teenage years) and kinda began to get more connected with M-L and stuff like that, and I would call myself a marxist. Yet, everytime I talk with other leftist I either get called a tankie or an anarkiddie. If I recommend Das Kapital, I'm a state bootlicker or a left wing fascist. If I talk about how I prefer direct democracy but know that the process to communism is slow and needs some help of a state, I get called an anarkiddie. Anyway, I just find exhausting the infighting. I already struggle a lot with mental health just to be poorly treated by other people that, supposedly, want the same as all of us. Anyway you guys in lemmygrad have been always so nice, thanks btw. Have a nice week and thanks for reading my small rant.
In recent years I've taken the leftist grillpill. There's far too few leftists/socialists around me for me to cut ties with someone just because we disagree on the route to a stateless, classless, moneyless society. Revolution in the imperial core seems so far off that I don't think distinctions like which dead socialist you think was right really matter at the moment. Maybe after the weeks when decades happen those distinctions will matter but until then I just want to find people I can talk with that aren't