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3 older sisters, 1 younger sister.
Haven't spoken to the oldest in over 5 years. No hate, she's just 10 years older than me, has 5 or 6 kids, and lived halfway across the US for my entire life.
2nd oldest and I talk at least monthy. We're the closest. Twin and I talk once every couple of months.
Little sister and I haven't spoken in months, and even then we rarely talk to each other and she has never been the first one to initiate contact. We fought a lot growing up, relationship got a little better after moving out, and now I have no idea what her issue is.
Today's her birthday, I have no intention of reaching out. She's engaged, I have no interest in attending the wedding. She went no contact first, I just have given up trying to reach out and maintain a relationship she clearly doesn't want.