I'm writing this post to inform you all that I have decided to defederate from the exploding-heads[.]com instance.
After carefully reviewing the instance, reported posts, and comments from our community, content on exploding-heads is clearly mostly—if not completely—in violation of our instance rules, including content posted by the instance admin themselves (a large factor in the decision to defederate any instance).
On other fediverse platforms I run, such as Mastodon, I would typically respond by "Limiting" such instances, since the main goal is to avoid the publishing and promotion of such topics on our public ("All") timelines, rather than control what you can or cannot access. Unfortunately, Lemmy does not yet offer the fine-grained moderation controls to make this possible, so complete defederation is our only option to avoid the re-publishing of content which is consistently hateful and discriminatory.
Defederation from other Lemmy instances is not taken lightly, and in the future I will continue to review instances on a case by case basis.
Yeah I hear you. That sentiment has been slowly seeping up north too. "Woke" or "Cancel" culture are the new calling card for racists and bigots et al. Most of these people just pining for the days where they can just be openly racists and such again.
It's crazy. I very much reside in "live and let live" country, but the second someone wears overalls, drives a Subaru, and uses pronouns, they start threatening to shut the library down because the Clinton Pedo ring has made it to Bumfuck town...