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Do you like or dislike people in general? Why? (lemm.ee)
submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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Think about how you have treated both strangers and people you know to answer this question accurately. e.g.: If you say you like people but constantly avoid talking or doing any activity with other people do you actually like people?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I don't like being physically close to almost anyone, and especially not to strangers. It's ok when each person has his own assigned space and everything is orderly and quiet, like on a plane or in a movie theater, but being in a crowd is both kind of disgusting and also upsetting in some other way which I don't know how to put into words - I just want to leave and I can't really express why. I can go into crowded places if I need to without freaking out, but afterwards I'm going to be in a bad mood for a while both because of the experience of being in a crowd and because of anger at the unfairness of the fact that for various reasons I live in a big city and I have to deal with all these... humans whenever I need to go outdoors.

So yeah, I guess you can say that I don't like people.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

sounds like you dont hate the humans themselves but just the overwhelm of the crowds. i dont think thats abnormal.