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is there a limit to the point that i will find women attractive? (aussie.zone)

submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Context, I'm 30 now and i will find women my age and up attractive, but 15 years ago a 35 year old women would never have been attractive to me.

As I've aged younger women are less and less attractive (thankfully)

But when I'm 60 will 60 year old women be attractive to me?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago (1 children)

So far what I learned, is that many factors play into attraction. Looks are one. A big factor for me is also seeing someone as an equal. Fuck dates are fine with much younger or older ones but dating and a relationship, nop. I want to take the other one serious, I want to be in about the same stage of life experience, to have similar goals and similar pop culture references (tv shows, music, games that we played as kids). Seeing someone as an equal comes with similar age for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Similar cultural references criteria would prevent dating someone who grew up in a different culture.