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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/farawayfaculty on 2023-07-09 03:12:31+00:00.
I (M34) recently met a person (F29) through a common friend. We texted the day before (in English). We were going to meet at a 4th July party in our friend’s house. We hit it off, we are both Latinos born in US. During my arrival to the party I ran into another attendee and who only spoke English. We chatted for a while and ran into the person I was there to see. We just kept speaking in English. We were hitting it off and the English-speaking attendee went on his way. At that moment she got a call, which she answered, and started saying things in Spanish like “Here I am meeting this guy, who works with John. He is not loaded but he is the kind of guy I need” and things of the sort. When she hung up I told her, hey I speak Spanish. She did a 180 and started apologizing and said that that’s the way she talks to people about dates as a defense mechanism. I said good bye and went to say hello to other attendees and then left. A day later I got a text from her saying I was am AH cause I should have said I spoke Spanish. AITA?
NTA. She also didn't disclose that she spoke another language until that point. Did she expect you to interrupt her conversation?