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Wife and I changed our mind about having kids.
Once we had children I started to understand why some prefer being childfree. I wouldn't trade them for anything now, but man would life be simpler. I sometimes think of how much more money and freedom we would have.
Sucks, but understandable. I know a couple with a kid and they're cutting back and taking on debt just to stay above water. My buddy said he's looking at taking on a second job to make ends meet.
It's wild to think that a couple decades ago it wasn't unheard of for one person to be the sole breadwinner for two families.