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What's the most expensive lesson you've learned? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Everyone tends to extrapolate from their own experiences. My wife and I got married about a month after we met, for complicated reasons. We've been married for just over 20 years now. Mostly very happily! I don't recommend our path to anyone, but the fact is that you just never know.