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How do I stop envying prettier women? (lemmy.world)
submitted 5 hours ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I honestly hate myself for still feeling this way at 23. Whenever I’m out, I always feel like the ugliest girl in the room, and it literally makes me feel completely worthless. It sucks watching how nicely everyone treats beautiful women. Nobody ever says anything mean to them. Guys are always looking out for them, and other girls always have their back. They get this pass in life that I’ve never had. No one has ever helped or protected me except my parents.I’ve learned to just rely on myself, because my parents won't be around forever and nobody else gives a damn about me. Maybe this is how it should be.

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[–] 3 points 4 hours ago*

For starters, stop staring at them and comparing yourself to them.

You need a hobby. That might help.

Life is unfair, fixating on it is pointless. Someone will always be better than you. The point is to set goals for yourself and work on achieving them, rather than being bitter that other people have stuff you don't, and might never, have.

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