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[–] 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Real talk though: the whole process fucking sucks.

People want to find someone, but there are bullshit societal conventions, it takes a shit load of courage and rejection, don't want to make anyone else uncomfortable/feel harassed; and how do you even find a good match? If anything happens to my marriage, then I have no interest in jumping into this process. A friend has been going through this for years including a bad breakup recently after a short relationship...... I got nothing to offer to make it better 🤷‍♂️

Edit: even worse when you meet someone who is good at this process. "Just act natural, take it easy. It's about body language. You get a feel for who is interested and it's just about being confident"....... Ok, black magic, gotcha.

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