This is gonna piss some people (men) off, I can already tell...

This is an excellent point and I think it demonstrates really well what people mean by "all men"

Even tho I love men as much as the next straight girl...bear for me, please

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[–] 6 points 2 hours ago (4 children)

Very real conversation, very productive dialogue

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago (3 children)

    I dunno, I think Catoblepas and I had a really nice and real conversation shrug

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  • [–] -2 points 39 minutes ago (2 children)

    I'm glad to hear that. I was most encouraged by the amount of people calling this out as artificially inflammatory engagement bait though, many of who were a lot more articulate and verbose than myself. Do you think the conversation in the twitter screenshot actually happened?

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  • [–] 2 points 38 minutes ago (1 child)

    I think the conversation in the screenshot is a literary device to demonstrate what people mean when they say "All men" when talking about sexual assault, rape, and our rape culture.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 minutes ago

    I think that 'literary devices' like this are, if well intentioned in the first place, counterproductive. Sharing our experiences and empathizing with one another brings us together and allows for healing and growth. Artificially intensified narratives serve to divide, isolate, and perpetuate a culture war serving only the elite. Even when well intentioned they're crafted for maximum impact and lack the core of humanity required for genuine connection. They outshine and obfuscate less superficially impactful but more heartfelt attempts to relate, keep us angry and afraid, and interfere with real progress. They're modern mass media, a far cry from the organic engagement people fled major platforms to seek here. Angry mobs have formed, and we've both been downvoted in the last 10 minutes (wasn't me). I don't think that's what anyone wants besides the chronically online addicted to intensity of experience itself. If it ever becomes the default here, if people stop calling it out, this place will have become just another reddit and hopefully someone will have told me about the next place where actual humans can go to share their thoughts and feelings.

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