This is gonna piss some people (men) off, I can already tell...

This is an excellent point and I think it demonstrates really well what people mean by "all men"

Even tho I love men as much as the next straight girl...bear for me, please

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[–] 6 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

For sure, I absolutely get and support that full stop. Trans men just often get caught in the discourse (if we’re not ‘choosing’ to be men to escape misogyny then we’re sexists with unconditional male privilege in all aspects of our life, which is something I wish my doctors believed lol), and people are kind of uncomfortable with accepting that many of us have been targets and victims of misogyny while also being men. It’s a fucking mess and it feels like fighting uphill in the mud to try to bring it up without upsetting multiple groups of people (including some trans men!) and just making the situation worse. And that’s basically been my experience for the past 15+ years of transition.

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  • [–] 3 points 22 minutes ago

    I can tell you that even as a cis man I have had to deal with the patriarchy/misogyny trying to pigeonhole me. I won’t pretend like it’s even close to what women or trans men deal with, but there is a ton of policing around masculinity.

    I think a big reason why men like sports so much is it’s one of the few socially permissible areas for them to show any emotions outside of anger.

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