Ive been out of school for a year or 2 (i lost count) and i still have no idea what i want to do in life nor do i have any hobbys or things to do for fun. I have many dreams but i give up on those dreams after like a 2 weeks and then think of some other dream. I wish school prepared me for all this freetime but idk, i just feel lost right now....

Im just wondering how i can figure things out now? i could use advice of sorts?

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[–] 2 points 19 hours ago

My advice is think of a practical skill you feel comfortable with and learn it well. If it's useful at any stage of technology, you will have a decent job secure for the rest of your life even if society advances a lot or falls to the stone age.

With that kind of foundation in place, you can then have fun (responsibly) or even afford to build a family with someone. Long term, it is what's useful, though you might miss out on the dumb risks of youth (which are totally peer/social pressure) and cause you to do dumb crap when hit by middle age anxiety.

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